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FireCracker tends to gravitate towards the camera. I don’t even remember what I was actually photographing when she asked me to take her picture. She’ll be four this summer. She seems so much older than four. Maybe it is due to having three big brothers. Or maybe it is just who she is. Either way, she keeps me on my toes.

She wanted some with her sister in their matching headbands. Little One was not so thrilled with the idea.

Then FireCracker decided it would be better if only one of them had a headband. Little One was still not so thrilled.

…and the choke hold hug…never works.

FireCracker tends to start things and then always asks me to bring her sister around. She was holding the chicks alone on the couch…and ‘no’ I did not tell her to cuddle Camo (the chick). This girl likes to play the role of momma to anything that will let her. After a few minutes she realized her sister wasn’t close by and urged me to bring Little One over.

Where there is a little sister…there is usually a big sister trying to be her momma!

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Terry Hodges - They are precious. Thank you for your beautiful blog. I enjoy it every day! God bless you!

Kara - Having a heavy day and the simple beauty of your post just brought smiles. Thanks for sharing your moments – your girls are beautiful.

Kari Signe - That last photo totally made my morning. Thanks for always brightening up my day with pictures of your beautiful children (and chickens)!

Jennifer - this reminds me of my sisters! i am the youngest of three, and the oldest was always a second mama to me. these two are so precious.

Katie - Their relationship is beautiful…may they always be the best of sisters and the best of friends! :)

Jenny L. - I love Firecracker’s personality but she is also a little beauty. I can just imagine what a fine young lady she is going to grow up to be. And Little One – I am loving watch her love and grow within your family. What a difference from when she first came. And Little One’s face – it just slays me – I love the way she crinkles up her nose when she smiles. I have 2 sisters and there is nothing like a sister. I have also loved watching Little One’s relationship with her father. I think she thought that Daddy business was really great right from the beginning in China. I am continually amazed by the life you have created for you and your family. You are doing an incredible job with the Campbell clan.

Renae - While I love ALL of your photos, the last two really captivated me. When I think of how Little One was spending her time less than a year ago my heart feels like it could burst! To know how much love and life and color and adventure she is now experiencing brings me incredible joy. Happy Easter to you and your family. God bless!

Cassi - These pictures so capture the love between them and the pride Firecracker has in Little One.

nancy - Oh I have one of those too! Except she’s 16 now. And at times I’ve had to put my foot down to the mothering. (Evidently, as I’ve been told, sometimes I don’t do it correctly!) They do make amazing big sisters!
nancy

Necole @seriouslysassymama - As the mother of 3 girls, I can relate. It is so much fun to watch.

Christin S. - Those are great! I was wondering what setting did you use?

Kristen - They are just too cute! Love sisters!!

Sara - I love your photos and how you capture everyday life and you’re one of my favorite blogs to read. I was just wondering what you’ve found is the best way to upload photos quickly, without bogging down your computer, while making sure your photos are safe from being deleted. I love snapping photos, but this is the step that slows me down and keeps me from sharing them. Any quick suggestions?

kimberly oyler - i’m so happy firecracker got a sister. she’s gonna be a good mom.

Liane - It’s beautiful watching their relationship develop. Thank you for sharing it with us.

Amy Cornwell - Firecrackers closed mouth smirk is the best – she looks so old in that picture! I can’t believe how big the chicks are getting already!

Nichole - Your chickens are growing before my very eyes! They seem much bigger than just a few posts ago. I love all Firecracker and Little One posts :)

Lydia - I love the last two photos. And seeing the transition Little One has made. As someone who is considering adoption for any addition(s) to our family, seeing your family’s journey warms my heart and gives me such hope for what may come for us.

annaO - This post makes me so happy, especially the title. I remember in your 100 days of waiting to get Little One, one of your 100 things you were looking forward to was being able to say, “Girls!”. I’m so happy you were able to make that word plural. :)

debi - Your girls are adorable!! Your blog posts always bring a smile to my face. You have the cutest family!

Angie - Firecracker looks just like YOU!
She just seems to have a great soul and spirit – just like YOU! And, Little One is so precious – just like YOU! :)
Happy Easter!

Teresa - The jeans and the princess dress. Kills me! :)

phanie - you are the best the best the best the best.
your blog brightens my day. your girls warm my heart.
and FIrecracker looks stunningly like you in the second photo.

these kids have it so good with a mama like you

Julie Moore - Ashley, I just got a link from a photo friend of ours to a site called Photo Barn – I think it’s http://www.photobarn.com. When I saw it I immediately thought of you – have you heard of it? What do you think? I dont have any connection to them – just as a reader of yours would love your take :) by the way, the girls are precious!

Gkey - Dear chickies mama,
A sister bond to last a lifetime! They are precious & I how i love the way you capture their individual personalities with your words & photos.
Happy Easter to you and your delightful family.
Love
A sister in the middle
In
NE

AshleyAnn - Julie – I haven’t heard of them…it looks like a good company, but I don’t know from experience.

Heather - Beautiful girls!!! Love the one with firecracker without the headband and little one with it. Firecracker looks so much older its crazy!! (I’ve been reading since she was a teeny baby)

Maredith - Love that Firecracker lets you take her picture…my 3 year old has started to refuse and just gives me her ugly faces. stinker! I was curious to know the kind of lighting you had for these (I am assuming large windows?), and what lens and setting were. Always looking for tips when it comes to indoors :)

Jacci in Ohio - I loved this post. Firecracker is getting so mature looking. I feel like you can tell what she’ll look like when she’s older. Which is… gorgeous. Her wild hair is going to work for her, I think.

:)

And sweet Little One. Beautiful little love. She’s so laid back, isn’t she? So is my Lily. She definitely smiles & laughs, too, but much of the time she’s just taking things in.

Happy Monday, Ashley!

Paige Rodriguez - Firecracker REALLY favors your husband to me…. In the most beautiful girly way, of course! I just love your updates. Always so pleasant to scroll through. :)

elizabeth H - these two are the most beautiful, sweetest sisters!!
{makes me want a little sister for our Sweet Pea.}
LOVE their headbands too ~ where are they from?!!

Amie mason - Your girls are completely and utterly adorable. I swear I can hear them giggling from here! Lovely, lovely post.

diy {fabric backed hutch}

Last December FireCracker and I went on a hunt for a hutch I could use in the studio. Under piles of trinkets and shelves full of stuff, I found my gem. It is that dark brown wood thing if you are wondering…

I really wanted to somehow salvage the little sections of retro contact paper, but I just couldn’t make that happen. So I lightly sanded and then painted the whole thing white. I kind of wanted to do it a fun color, but with the red chalkboard wall I thought I better just stick with white.

I also wanted a fun background, but again was stuck trying to find something to coordinate with the red wall. I had some wallpaper that would have been easy to apply, but it clashed. So I waited a bit and one day came across a vintage tablecloth in the perfect red. The studio is very much a ‘studio’…we are creating in there and often that includes a mess. Knowing it was highly likely the fabric could get stained or messed up (and just dirty) in a hutch with no glass, I knew I needed to protect the fabric. So I turned it into oilcloth basically. Super easy. I might be doing this to my kids’ clothes next.

Supplies:

  • Tablecloth (or fabric)
  • Iron On Vinyl

First, I ironed the tablecloth to get out all the wrinkles. Next, I followed the vinyl instructions and covered the whole tablecloth with the vinyl (I had already measured and knew I would need the whole tablecloth).

Next, I cut the vinyl into strips to fit on the backside of the hutch. It would have been better if I could have removed the back of the hutch and not had to cut all the strips, but that wasn’t an option.

Finally, I used hot glue to attached the fabric to the hutch. I didn’t want it to be super permanent because I change my mind like the wind changes directions. Case in point…the red chalkboard is no longer red. This vinyl covered fabric worked great, but I am not super crazy about how it reflects light. It will work for now, but since the chalkboard isn’t red anymore…I might be using some wallpaper in the future. After I build a chicken coop. And a potager garden. And do laundry, dishes,…….

I’m filling the hutch with the little things that are nice to have on hand in that room for our family and guests. It is especially fun to watch little boys drink from tea cups – teaching them manners and keeping my hutch cute!

I tried really hard to love the red chalkboard, but I just kept wanting to go back to white. This space is still very much a work in progress. We still need to add a backsplash, cabinets and curtains. Then I will, of course, need to liven up that white wall. We spend so much of our time in this little corner. I want it to be homey and cozy.

P.S. Thanks for all the great advice and insight yesterday!

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Elizabeth - Totally falls under the category of “now you tell me,” but you can get matte iron-on vinyl. But I think the hutch looks great!

kimberly oyler - i think what you need in your life is for me to live in the upstairs of your studio and do your dishes as payment. win win for everyone.

Kerry@PlentyPlace - I love the little ways you find to feather your nest with bits of vintage happiness.

Necole @seriouslysassymama - I would love a hutch, but alas do not have the room. What I really want is a pie cabinet with glass doors. I just finished painting a armoire for the dining room and just need my husband to hang the doors. I am not mechanically inclined like that. I love the fabric pattern.

Molly - So lovely! I too am on a hutch hunt….looking for the perfect hutch to bring back to life. I love how you lined it with fabric. will have to remember that!!!

Sarah - I am the same way – my decor and projects never stay the same for long. I am always rearranging and want to change colors and such. Honestly, I hate change especially major life changes but for some reason creative change is something I urn for.

Kristi - I kinda want to live at your house. In a non-creepy and non-stalking sort of way.

stephany - I absolutely LOVE this space!

Staci - Ha! Changing the red wall… that is so something I would do! It took me years to realize that I should just plan on changing my mind. Hence why I don’t order canvas prints anymore and stick to frames. I change pictures every month or two.

I love the cabinet! I looks brand new with that white paint!

angie - I wasn’t a huge fan of the red chalkboard, hehe :) I love a black chalkboards but it really needs the right space. I love your white walls. I bought my first home 2 years ago and after 10 years of renting and not being able to paint I painted every wall in my house a different color! Now I long for all white walls and my husband thinks I’m crazy! But one room at a time I think I am going to go for it! :) :)

jenny - what a great idea for the fabric-making your own oil cloth! So cool!
I always love a white, bright space but I will admit that I really loved your red chalkboard too!
But then again, I always love what you do to your spaces;always happy and cheerful. :)

mandi@herbanhomestead - It looks great! I’m basically looking for the same piece to house all of our board games! Heading out to Antique Week in Round Top today with my fingers crossed!

Audrey - I don’t know how you do it – it looks amazing. I’d have walked past that hutch in it’s original state and ignored it! I’m waiting to see how your chickens work out too – I really want some too!

emmybrown - I loved the red chalk board! Hilarious and sad all at the same time that it’s gone! But, I LOVE how you change things so often….it’s just one of the things that makes you so cool!

Gina - Your hutch turned out beautiful and I love the things you have put in it!! The tablecloth you turned into vinyl was perfect for the job!! I love white walls adding pops of color with accessories. I think white walls give you a great back drop and makes it easier to change your mind like the wind lol!

Melissa - I’m curious what color white paint you use. I feel like picking the right white is hard! Thanks.

France's - Hello, I love your style and creativity! You are so talented with your photography. I hope someday, my photos can be decent! I am so grateful for your heart to adopt a baby girl from china. I also was adopted from an orphanage, but at a very old age. She is a very blessed little girl and you are a good mama! Bless you!

Sarah{Handbags*N*Pigtails} - Wow, what an amazing vintage tablecloth that is. The ones I come across are never worth saving b/c they’re so stained. I love your cabinet too.

Danielle - Sigh, you inspire me:)

Jacci in Ohio - You have such great style. That all looks so awesome!

Anna - Iron-on vinyl? Who knew! I really, really, really, really love your decorating style. From the watercolor header on your blog, to the mismatched bar stools, to the bright and cheery colors all over your home, I dig it! Uh, so what do you call it? There’s a name for every kind of decorating style, right?

Kaytie - Oh, I love the hutch! What about using wallpaper for the back but putting some type of sealant over it so that you could still wipe it off? Maybe even something simple like mod podge (not totally permanent but might work until you change your mind… but might still reflect too much light)… I don’t know, just a thought. :)

Aimee Swift - Great idea!

Shannon - The hutch looks like it came straight out of Anthropologie =) Any chance you would be willing to share your blueprint for the chicken coop?

Lindsey - This is incredible! I did not know there was such a thing as iron-on vinyl. FABULOUS! I must have some! Love how this area turned out!

Rosalind - Instead of hot gluing to the actual cupboard you could put fabric, paper or wallpaper on some foam core (foam board) cut to size for each shelf, to make changing it out easier! I saw it on Eddie Ross blog (post is called ‘Billy, don’t be a hero’) but have seen it on pinterest too!

Kelsea - I think the hutch looks great! If you’re not happy with the shine, maybe taking a fine sand paper over it would knock the shine. Or perhaps brushing on a matte modge podge?

elizabeth H - GORGEOUS!!
the fabric adds just the right touch {along w. all those awesome vintage tins. & the tablecloths, & the teacups &, &, all of it..}
it’s simply LOVELY!!
did i miss how $$ the hutch cost?

planning a potager/cottage garden

Thank you for sharing your stories and your words of encouragement on Monday’s post. We are hanging in there together. The days are a little rough, but thankfully I’ve got a good man by my side that is ready to embrace it all when he gets home – even after long days at work. So, yep, I’m doing a lot of holding right now, but when I’m not holding (and sometimes when I am holding), I’m planning a beautiful yard.

Our property is long, narrow, and void of just about anything other than random toys and grass. Growing up my next door neighbor had the most amazing cottage garden. Flowers, vines, plants gorgeously covering every inch of everything. Beautiful flower chaos. When they’d go out of town, they’d hire my sister and I to water. It took a long time, but was one of my very favorite jobs growing up. I could get lost in that garden. Every turn had a new surprise. I dreamed of owning that house one day, just for the garden.

Eventually they moved and new owners cut back everything for a more orderly yard and garden. I still get grumpy when I visit my parents’ house and remember the way things used to be next door.

Anyway…I have a big flat field that I am bound and determined to transform.

I don’t have a lot of ideas of how to actually make this dream happen.

Painting walls is so much easier than turning a field into a cottage garden.

Nonetheless, I am going to try.

I’m starting with this: chickens ~ raised garden bed ~ temporary compost bin/site ~ wood chips & more coming (Back to Eden, anyone?) ~ mini fruit & nut orchard ~ lots of space

That is a train passing in the background of the picture above. I’m not sure I’ve ever mentioned we live right by train tracks. It is kind of awesome. Someday when the kids are grown and I’m not a responsible adult, I’d like to jump on a empty car and ride a while down the track. I’ll pack a picnic, some boots, a good hat and sunglasses. It will be a fine day.

But it is illegal and dangerous, so I won’t…probably.

I’ve been pouring over all my old Cottage Living magazines. Tearing out pages and jotting notes of the plants that will work for what I am hoping to achieve. I’m dreaming of vegetables mixed in with flowers….berries climbing fences….trees ripe with fruit…a little oasis in the middle of this wide openness. Problem is I am just trying to figure it out as I go. I wish I had a landscaping degree, it would come in handy now.

My friend recommended the book Free Range Chicken Gardens. It has been perfect for me as I begin to plan out our garden and how chickens can be a huge asset, not hindrance to gardening. My dad is helping us with building the coop. He can build anything and thankfully I think it is hard for him to turn me down when I ask for his help. I’ll pay him off with eggs one day.

So….I’m reading, watching videos, planning out fences and paths and plants. But I am bound to make a bunch of mistakes. The plan right now is to spend the next few months getting loads of wood chips, putting up fencing and laying out the framework for the whole area. Maybe we’ll plant some bulbs and shrubs in the fall and the heavy planting next spring. So, wonderful wise blog readers, I know some of you are pros at this. Here are my questions:

  • Anyone want to just come do this all for me? I’m joking. No, I’m not.
  • What are your favorite plants?
  • What do you wish you had done differently in your own cottage/potager garden?
  • Any non-overwhelming advice for someone just getting ready to do a total makeover on a yard?
  • Any favorite websites?

Well, today is supposed to be warm so I will be working on digging the coop stem wall. We have a lot of chicken predators around here, so the coop has to be extra beefy. I already dug the stem wall once, then we decided to enlarge the coop so it is back to work for me. That is assuming Little One will let me!

 

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Carin - I have you thought about just hiring a landscape designer to make up plans and then you guys to all the buying and executing of the landscape plans. Sometimes they will even do plans in stages so you can add execute them over a few years. MOre than half the fun is the planting, the hard part is always the planning.

the chronic utilitarian - that ‘before’ photo will be your review mirror.
keep it close to your home for easy watering and gathering.

my garden is the second one that i have overhauled. thirty-six tons of rock, twelve tons of dirt later, it is starting to look how i saw it in my head. my wheelbarrow has said no more.

before:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/dawnhouser/sets/72157615857571787/

after:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/dawnhouser/sets/72157622388186322/

the first thing i did was put a coop behind the garage. you will love your chickens!

happy spring to you and yours.

Cindi - I’m interested in all of this too! We recently got 11 chickens. Coop is up and chickens are living in them. You can see pictures of it on my blog. What are you collecting ALL the wood chips for? For paths? Just curious.

Allison - If you find someone to just do it all for you….send them my way when they are done! I have the same dreams, but like you, have no plan. I don’t have any idea on even where to start. ill be looking forward to watching your progress!

Jess Z. - This is a good website for finding plants in your zone, just choose the correct one:
http://www.hgtvgardens.com/plant-finder/
also bhg.com under gardening…I’ve gotten a lot of inspiration from there.

I live in MN, not OK, so not sure if these are good for your zone, but I love Black-eyed Susans, daisies (painted daisies are fun), asters, clematis, blue fescue (grass), delphinium, daylilies, flowering crabapples, meadow sage, poppies,bellflowers, peonies, phlox, purple coneflowers, hostas, and yucca (grass), but I’ve never planted that.

Go slow, you might change your mind on some things. Also, plants/shrubs will seem very small to you the first year or two (or three), but will eventually grow and fill out. And make a garden plan…a drawing of where you want to put things. It makes it much easier. A local garden shop should be able to help you with a design (most up here do it for free).

Good luck :)

Jess Z. - You can also search for garden plans, which I’m sure you’ve done though. There are many you can find…again, bhg.com helped me with this.

Jessica - FYI on free-range chickens, my MIL has about 15 on 1/2 an acre. If you don’t rotate where they are allowed to graze, they can turn your lawn into a dirt space. Which is bad during wind storms. Also, will your garden be off limits to them? They can and will eat everything. Beware! :)

natalie - hey, lady! we live fairly close & my husband worked in oklahoma for over a year so i am fairly familiar with what you’re dealing with. whatever you do, make sure you tackle the bermuda grass. it will ruin all plans when, instead of planting beautiful flowers & shrubs, your pulling back weeds all summer. also, considering the lack of rain & extreme heat during the summer, i would recommend native perennials for your backyard! they always go on sale during the fall :) black eyed susans, cone flowers, etc… these plants are also a great buy because each year they grow larger each year. you can dig up parts of the plant & plant them in another part of your yard! i hope that helps :)

Amy Arroyo - If you haven’t already, you may want to try using a baby carrier like an Ergo so that Little One can just hang out with you while you get all your living done. You can wear it on front or on back and it’s a great little seat for the little one.

Necole @seriouslysassymama - We rent so o big fancy gardens. We have our small vegetable garden which we are working on. I am going to plant a few vines probably a honeysuckle because it reminds me of when I was a kid. Then just pots and pots of flowers. I will have mini gardens everywhere.

Marie - I’d tap into as many Permaculture ideas as possible, to cut down on your watering needs, work with the ideas you have of mixed veggies, flowers and animals, and keep things a little easier over time…less digging, weeding, etc. Gaia’s Garden is a GREAT book to check out and incorporate into your planning. And even though you aren’t in the city, the book “the Essential Urban Farmer” is full of incredibly helpful DIY ideas for starting up from nothing.

One thing the writer of Gaia’s Garden recommends and we’ve begun to do with our little suburban homestead, is incorporating more perennials, even perennial vegetables to cut down on all the digging, replanting etc.

Sounds like great fun. I had a similar “blank slate” 5 years ago, and now we have 24 raised beds of veggies, flowers, herbs and fruit, many perennials, some great successes and many “lessons” along the way. And planning for chickens and maybe goats soon!

Lacy - Don’t you just miss Cottage Living magazine? I recognize several of your issues pictured from my own secret stash. I still remember when they folded and I got my last issue! Good luck with your garden; you have a greener thumb than I.

Jurga :) - I have only one tip for gardening: Just enjoy it!!! You will make mistakes, you will learn from them. It’s all good as long you are outside enjoying yourself.

I share daily edible gardening tips here
https://www.facebook.com/EdibleEden

Debbie C - Hi Ashley, this all sounds so exciting! A lot of work, but so worth it. I don’t know much about gardening, but I used to work with someone whose wife’s job was to teach kids about it. He said it’s always a good idea to have the soil tested for toxins before planting edible things. I think you can order a kit and do it yourself? If the soil does have toxins, you can use landscaping fabric under the new soil of your raised beds to keep them out.

Jurga - Just enjoy yourself!

Jurga - Ashley, I just wanted to let you know that I have been getting “There was an error submitting your comment. Please try again.” whenever I try to comment. I may not be the only one.

Have a lovely day!

Jurga - The only tip I have for all those starting their own garden is: JUST HAVE FUN WITH IT! You will make mistakes, you will get better, you will survive :)

If you are looking for daily tips for edible gardening please visit my site http://www.facebook.com/EdibleEden I provide consultations for all those interested in growing, eating healthy food :)

Sunny Side Up! :D

LeighP - Dream big but start small. We added a flowerbed to the front facade of our house. We did it in two phases over three summers. I poured over magazines, Sunset.com and BHG.com for ideas. Definitely take advantage of perennial plant sales at the end of the season. We too mixed edible (peach tree, apple trees, lemon grass, thyme, mint) in with a more traditional flower garden. Keep in mind full mature plant size so you don’t plant them too close together; shorter plants in front and mix in some non-flowering plants too. The great thing about cottage gardens is that it’s pretty hard to go wrong. Have fun digging!

Melissa - Gardenia Bushes are my fav. They can grow big, or you can trim them down to whatever size you would like. AND they bloom a couple of times a year. You can’t beat that beautiful smell!

Mackenzie - +1 for Gaia’s Garden! It’s a great book. The cover is a picture of Will Hooker’s yard – a professor at NC State University who focuses on Permaculture. His website has distance education videos of his lectures: http://610kirby-permaculture.org/610kirby-permaculture.org/Welcome.html

For more permaculture check out Introduction to Permaculture by Bill Mollison

Cindy - I would just start to grow what you like to eat. Lettuce is very easy, fast, and when it bolts your chickens will love it. Kids love sugar snap peas, and usually green beans straight off the plant. The first year you can see what your weather and sun patterns are going to be, then next year, enlarge or change. Square foot raised beds are great. They stay moist. I just dump my compost right on top every year, and then add lime, (chicken poop is acidic). My chickens get all kinds of weeds and spent plants, and I know it makes their eggs bigger and better. Good luck, and have fun!

Steph - My tip – get a toddler/baby carrier for LO :) . Boba is my favorite, easy in and out and not sweaty or heavy.

jenny - Oh, I am so with you on the cottage garden! I love those gardens where it seems almost as if you wandered into some mysterious, magical land! So dreamy!
I have always wanted that too but truly have no idea what I am doing in the department so I am afraid I am of no help to you!
We did, however, start square foot gardens a couple of years ago and I am still getting the hang of those.

mandi@herbanhomestead - Oh, I’m excited! I so wish I could come help you, because starting from ground zero is just one of my favorite things. The husbands could talk ministry while we dig! Ha! So my advice is this- start small. It’s great to have a master plan of where you want to get, but start with what is manageable and move from there. I add a new raised bed or two every year. That helps me maintain what I have and not feel overwhelmed. As far as plants go- native plants are the best bet. They would attract all of the birds and insects your little naturalist could ever hope for! Also- have you considered planting a meadow? That is my dream one day to do! Just scatter wild flower seeds all over the field and you will have a wild scape! So wonderful! Email if you have any questions. I would love to help out if I can. I’ve had backyard chickens for 5 years now and know a lot about that and bunnies. And we’re adding bees and a goat soon. I’d love to help!

susie - Trumpt vines are so pretty, Try talking your dad into making you a little pagola and grow vines on it! I think you could make one pretty cheap. Then you can put your table under it for shade in the summer!
Try trumpt, jasmin and there is a chinnese flower (I can’t remember the name) We had those thee in northern AZ and I miss them so much. They don’t do well here in windy wyoming. They grow really fast! The trumpt vines have a beautiful orange flower that the humming birds like.

Katherine - I’m looking forward to watching the rants formation. Excited to see what you come up with.

laura - oh, to have a blank slate!

my husband and i love to garden, but we have a very mature, lots o’ trees, nearly full-shade garden in suburbia. we dream of big open, clear spaces to design from scratch.

a few things i’ve learned over the past 13 years here:

- don’t be afraid to move plants around. the irises look lovely overflowing onto the garden path in the spring, but when it’s august and those irises are dry and you’re trying to move the water hose and it keeps landing on the irises, it’s really better to move them a few feet instead of beating them to death.

- bigger is almost always better. on my side bed, by the garage, i plant the whole thing with zinnias. it’s about 8×20 and it’s a lot of work to get it going (and keep it watered in the kansas sun, especially during a drought), but it’s so lush and overflowing and gorgeous.

- allow space for trees and shrubs to grow. we we bought out house, the backyard was lined with evergreens, planted in the ’70s. they are fully mature now, and completely block out neighbors, but they also block out TONS of light.

- get your soil tested. we discovered someone dumped cloridane (to kill termites) in the ’80s, making our ground unsafe to grow fruits and veggies for 100 years. everything we want to grow, must be in pots (which is working out, as we can move those to chase the sun) (but still, HUGE bummer)

- naturalizing is a good thing.

can’t wait to see what you do, xoxo

Seamingly Sarah - I prefer old fashioned looking flowers and plants, like hollyhocks. But I also wish I had stuck with more native plants in my first garden. I would closely at plants and what they will become after a few years (will they spread too much or not enough, do they develop hard thorny leaves – annoying to garden around and not fun for kids). Plan out your garden/space with room for all the plants to expand as they naturally do. So that means spacing things out and finding out how much each plant will expand (and allow for bigger/taller plants in the back and smaller ones in the front, a good mix of colors and different bloom times for things – maybe draw it all out on a piece of paper to consider all aspects). That being said, just do what you can and try one new thing each year until you start to feel more confident!

Andra - The little chicks are too cute! Some ‘after’ photos of the garden would be nice, when it’s ready.

Fiona Alvero - Check this out! Her house has been featured fews times on Country Living. She’s got a quite stunning country farmhouse, with farm garden (plus a breathtaking overlooking view. Life sometimes is unfair, you know) and all! It’s pretty much all her and her husband’s labor so I’m confident you will do well too!

http://acountryfarmhouse.blogspot.com/

Hope this helps! :)

RHONDA - Hi Ashley……after many years of trying different plants in different states I have discovered that you should ONLY plant what is native to your area (climate and soil). Trust me…..you will waste a lot of time, money and energy if you don’t. Find a nursery in your area that specializes in natives and you will gain a lot from them. That’s my 2 cents worth…..wish someone would have steered me that directions MANY years ago. It makes sense if you think about it. Happy Easter!

Julien - I live in an HOA in California soooooo my situation is a little different from yours BUT I love my garden! It brings me so much joy to watch it grow and change with the seasons.
My tips would be:
-Install some sort of drip irrigation system on a timer so your hard work doesn’t get destroyed if life gets a little busy one week.
-Pick things that will re-seed themselves. I have Johnny Jump ups, California Poppies, and “love in a mist” (Nigella damascena) that come back over and over again. It’s fun to see what pops up each spring.

And I would totally design and build your garden if I lived remotely close to you. :)

tartaruga dos Tartarouchos - I only can tell you one thing: i wish i have that big yard, snif, snif.

Jackie Rueda - Ashley, I can’t wait to see your garden. This reminds me of a beautiful article by Molly Ringwald in Martha Stewart Living magazine. Have you read it?
http://staging.failsafestudio.com/molly/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/Essay_L0912TREAF-2.pdf

Lisa - So excited for you! I agree with the previous post advising a landscaper just to do a plan for you.
I would also like to suggest lots of ground cover. I have learned that mulch is a lot of work and very expensive. With ground cover, you will need less and less each year, as the ground covers fill in! I also dig up plugs of ground cover, as it gets thicker, to plant elsewhere.
As far as flowering/ornamental plants go, I love Day Lillies & Hostas, simply because they can be split every year which is a free way to expand your garden slowly.
Best of luck to you! Looking forward to seeing your vision come to life!!! :)

Nora - You may enjoy googling images for “chicken moat”.
We plan to fence an acre of our land, with a fence down. the middle the coop will open onto both halves; during the summer the hens will free range in the orchard half, and through the winter they will have the veg garden side.

brandi - one thing i have learned about planting … anything is – it all starts with good soil. you can dig up the ground, plant the most beautiful plants, veggies, trees and it can be for nothing if the ground doesn’t have the right nutrients. people make up their own all the time, mixing in worm droppings, adding gypsum … all these super complicated things which is exhausting. i found this: Alpha Thrive uses a proprietary, concentrated blend of microbes and mycorrhizal fungi to recondition your soil and elongate the root systems within it. The result? Your plants have more access to the nutrients they need to be healthy. (this is straight from their website – http://www.alphathrive.com). This stuff has made all the difference in the world. it’s worked on my container plants, my dad’s lawn, our family friend’s farm … amazing! their tag line should be “you too can be a rockstar gardener!”

Ellen - I am in this stage, sort of. We have an established vegetable garden, though the soil needs help, and a few other random spots, but I would like the yard to look more cohesive and pretty. I’d also like a more established herb garden. That would be very useful.

I do agree with the ‘native to your area’ suggestion. A good way to mix with reliable perennials and exciting flowers is to have spaces that are easy to seed with a whack of nasturtium seeds and that sort of thing. Tons of colour, easy upkeep, cheap.

I also have an advice question for you – I have to decide this week between a great phone with a ‘good phone camera’ (our contract is up and I could replace my very basic phone which is also our home phone) or a DSLR camera. Which would you suggest? We have a point and shoot camera which is ok, but not great and I’m torn. The phone with ‘good’camera would come everywhere with me and I’d likely take more photos in real life, but I’m also drawn to the quality of the DSLR and ready to expand my skills a bit. Only one of the two for now… what would you say?

Rebecca - oh man this post makes me so excited — this is EXACTLY what I want to do too! We just bought our first home so this will be my first summer with my own property and I have visions of chickens and a greenhouse and an awesome cottage garden. It’s gonna be a bit tricky for me though because I live in Fairbanks Alaska (we are zones 1-3) so a lot of the things I want to grow (such as roses) won’t work (or at least most of the varieties won’t work). I can’t wait to see your progess though and see how you design your chicken coop!

Karen J Moseley - As I read about how you & your sister took care of your neighbors flowers/garden, I immediately thought about the book “A Secret Garden”. I think your kids would enjoy listening to you read it. : )

When I was little, I spent many summer days in Louisiana with my Granny. She also had a huge yard. Huge trees. One with a wooden swing that she’d push me in for hours…or so it seemed. She had a smallish brick pool with different types of goldfish. I loved that! But, my favorite thing was her clothes lines. She had beautiful Morning Glories climbing up both ends. Still my favorite flowers, the blue ones. And, nothing beats the smell of sheets and pillow cases hung out to dry!

There were so many different types of butterflies in her yard. When she would find a dead butterfly, she would gently carry it into her house. She had a bulletin board mounted on the inside of one of her cupboard doors and she would carefully pin those butterflies up there to dry out. She made very beautiful art with them. She put them on different colors of velvet fabrics, along with dried flowers and then frame them in picture frames. I used to sit on the counter and stare at those dead butterflies and to be honest, though it was very odd. But, now I can see how she captured much beauty in her work.

Looking forward to seeing your Secret Garden! Hugs ~ Jo

Marykay - I love this! We are also trying to do a little landscaping that incorporates both flowers and edible plants in our front yard. I’m sure you’ve seen it on Pinterest but I love the idea of a teepee that the kids can play in with both beans and sweet peas (flowers) growing up it. These could also grow together on a fence or trellis but a teepee sounds way more fun!

Jack - I’m always amazed by the sheer amount of space that American’s seem to have surrounding their properties! Your garden is HUGE compared to our tiny little postage stamp gardens here in England. Your kids must just love all that freedom to run around.

Katie - So fun!
My parents have a beautiful cottage/english style garden. The advice I’ve gotten from them:
-trial and error: stick in and if it grows well, buy more! don’t force growing things that just won’t “take” in your garden
-go to the garden center every 2 weeks or so throughout the growing season to see what is in bloom. If you plant what is in bloom when you shop, and continue to add plants that way throughout the season, something will always be blooming.
-for the best impact: repeat plantings in groups. use principles of design, repetition and balance will make it beautiful. Variety will keep it “cottage”.
:-)
Isn’t playing around with God’s “earthy” creations just wonderful?!

Katie - oh! and Craig’s List: people are always giving away plants or selling them for cheap on there.

Amanda K - I’m so glad I’m not the only one who saw this and thought baby carrier! ;) My baby is about the same age as your little one, and not so little anymore so I got a toddler Bamberoo and we are loving it! I could pack my 5 year old in it if I had to. My daughter fell asleep for the first time on my back when I was wearing her while making banana bread. http://hyenacart.com/stores/Bamberoo/index.php?viewall=1 We love our Mei Tai too. Both give my daughter a nice spot to ‘ride’ while I’m getting stuff done.

Hugs and good luck! I can’t wait to see what you create.

Tonpia - Would the chicken predators eat all of your garden edibles? I’d love to have a garden like that but the deer around here would destroy it. Does anyone have any help for natural critter deterrents?

Kristin S - I’m lazy and didn’t read through all the comments but Denise JUST posted about this earlier this week.

http://www.deniseinbloom.com/our-potager-garden-project-begins/

Good stuff.

beth marie - i’m positive you’ve been to woodward park before. have you ever went over and looked around in the linaeus teaching gardens and barn on the far s. east side of the park. i don’t really know if this is what you have in mind, but i am always so inspired by that space. they have a little vegetable and herb garden that make me think of what you are talking about. it would be good visual inspiration i’m sure.

Kat - I really love forsythia and think it has that perfect wild, untamed look for a purposely not manicured garden. I really want to put one in my yard when we get around to doing that!

Also – sweet peas. They look so lovely wound up in some sort of arch or trellis.

Everything I have read about cottage gardens (I’d like to have one too) is to just mix a lot of lows and highs in, so you want to find plants that fill all those requirements. And lots of color! And not lots of fuss. I think you have an incredible eye for all of your photos and I am sure it will translate to the yard. And I know what you mean about having a specific memory about a garden – my great aunt had one of those in northern California. She lived in the suburbs but had a lot in the back of a court and her house was recessed from the street/property was fenced, so the front garden felt like its own little secret. I used to love wandering around and smelling all the flowers and touching all the ground cover (they had a lot of cool mosses and such). It felt like the secret garden. I’d love to have that someday!

Shannon - Hello!
We have a fairly large backyard for Vegas standards, and we did almost all of it ourselves. So I wouldn’t get overwhelmed at the lot of dirt we purchased, the first thing I did was to draw out a tentative sketch of our overall plan, with paths, areas of plants, patios, etc. Next I planted the trees so they could get a head start. Then the best thing I did was to start on the left side of the yard and work toward the right. It was too overwhelming to tackle the whole yard at once, but starting on once side focused me on one spot, and I made adjustments as I made my way to the opposite side of the yard. The whole thing took a year or more, but it ended up great!

Emily - I know you’ve got your trees up, but my absolute favorite tree on our property (we have 12 fruit trees) is the pomegranate. It’s just amazing.

Also, rosemary is gorgeous and flowers and is hard to kill. It can be used as hedgerows or ornamentals…and when the bushes get big enough and the stems are sturdy enough – they make the best kebob skewers.

Have fun!

Stacey Ball - I come offering no plant advice, I kill every plant I touch. HOWEVER, I seriously have jumping on a train on my “bucket list” so if you ever need a buddy on your picnic you just let me know.

Nancy - My husband always said “One generation plants the trees….the next generation enjoys them” When we moved into our home 18 years there was nothing growing around it. He planted so many trees & bushes; built a chicken house & pen…It’s hard to imagine the place without them. Enjoy your little slice of heaven.

Tina - You have to check out Houzz if you haven’t already.

http://www.houzz.com/potager-garden

You can search for anything you want…I searched Potager Gardens for you and waalah…58,000+ photos appeared. You can save these into your own ideabook, ask questions of experts, and find local help in your area! Everything you need…at your finger tips! Largest home remodeling site on the move…and my daughter works for them so I know they are a great company created by a couple whom themselves posed question just like yours at one time when they were trying to remodel and then decided to create a site for folks {like you} to get information! Really, try it! You’ll be hooked and you won’t need those Cottage Living magazines anymore (those I still like the real thing too so maybe you will!)

Tina Pelletier - You can even find fanciful chicken coops!

http://www.houzz.com/chicken-coops

that would be perfect for your beautiful land! And so fun too!

Tina Pelletier - And awesome articles!

http://www.houzz.com/ideabooks/1781658/list/Chicken-Coops-That-Rule-the-Roost

Okay…hope I’ve sold you now! :) Your website is beautiful, your photos are beautiful, your children are beautiful…you are inspiring and I so look forward to your blog posts! Just saying! Just hoping maybe I can inspire YOU a bit as you give so much to others!

AshleyAnn - Tina – thanks for all those links!!!

annie Page - The best advice is to be patient – plants take time to grow, much like families. You are better off with little plants and allowing them to grow into your space, vs. trying to make your garden exactly the way you want it now. It’s expensive and chances are you’ll want to tweak along the way. Every year I add a couple of plants, move and divide some and eventually, when I’m old and gray it will be exactly the way I want it, for now it’s just perfectly growing.

Ruth@GraceLaced - No joke, I wish I could come over and draw it out with you, and map out flowers and veggies. I’m a painter, you know…and a field like this is really a crazy awesome blank canvas. :) I just responded to your comment, but did you see the completed potager last summer? It was our first year, at it was still lovely…and a fab spot for entertaining! http://www.gracelaced.com/2012/07/31/a-birthday-party-in-the-potager/

I can’t even begin thinking of all the cool things you can do with that much space! Paths, benches, hanging lights…oh my.

Jacci in Ohio - Okay… Well… I’m probably just repeating everyone, but I can’t go through all the wonderful comments left by others tonight… I’m going to offer my 2 cents as a mama of five, like you. First things first – you want to mess with your soil a TON. Till it, deep… And amend, amend, amend with organic matter. It seems so unrewarding to deal with the dirt for so long, but it’s pretty foundational. Test your soil or have it tested. You’ll want to know acidity & nutrient levels as well as what kind of drainage you’re working with. Good soil = strong, healthy plants = less time and stress from pest & disease problems.

Also, I know you’ll choose your plants carefully for the sun & water conditions you want… But I’d also recommend trying hard to keep a high percentage of your plants to those that are native to your area AND drought resistant. There are some super easy care native plants here & I can’t imagine it would be much different there. I use native grasses for height & movement… They take almost nothing from me. As a mama, you want a lot of plants that are low care or no care.

This is making me eager for spring! :) maybe I should just drive over for coffee and a jump on the trampoline & we’ll chat in person ;)

Emily @ Peck Life - Yippee! I love gardening – you have such a great space, the possibilities are endless. If you are new to it all and are unsure how much time/effort you really want to devote, my best advice is to pick native plants to your area and/or species that are low maintence and easy to grow. Not only will it mean less work for you, but they will thrive in the natural soil and require less water, mulch, and “perfect soil”. I wish I had more suggestions but I live in Seattle so the climate and plants are totally different! Fruit trees will do great on your property though, it looks like you have a lot of sun!

Holly - There are so many helpful comments already. My two cents is to plan for irrigation now. Even if you do a few simple PVC pipes in the ground, or you go super elaborate, it will save you time and frustration down the road. I speak for {my bad} experience.

Crystal - I love gardening and when we started with our first house I knew nothing. The beauty of gardening is that it’s not really permanent. If you don’t love it, you can move it, or rip it out and compost it.

1. Ditto the comments about native plants. Find a good local nursery, they’ll help you tons. Ask for plants that bloom for a long time and are hard to kill.

2. Plant the “structure” of your garden with trees and flowering shrubs. They usually fill out quickly, add scale, and if native, should be easy. Look for shrubs that that will mature to right size so you won’t have to prune them. Don’t forget some evergreens.

3. My favorite flowers are easy ones. Purple coneflower, coreopsis, lambs ear, catmint, peonies, knock-out roses, daffodils (by the thousands!) hostas, perennial geranium etc. Do you have deer? Don’t plant it if the deer eat it. You won’t win.

4. While you’re waiting for perennials and shrubs to mature, fill-in with zinnias and cosmos for tons of color.

5. Sometimes mistakes are the most beautiful things. Enjoy!

Anna Joy - Free Range Chicken Gardens is my FAVORITE book. It definitely inspired me to change up our whole backyard. We are putting up the chicken fence soon. I am painting my chicken coop today. I’ll be sure to take a pic for you to see. :) After the fence is up, we are putting plants all around the perimeter in hopes of keeping out the riff raffs. Fortunately, our spot is right under a huge tree so no fear of hawks diving down…just raccoons, foxes, snakes, possums, etc. I’m excited for your garden! It’s my summer project but I’m super pumped about it. It’s so funny how we both got into this at the same time!!! :)

Tina - Have you contacted your local Extension agent? There should be an office nearby. You can probably also get on Ok Sate’s website to find one in your area. They are experts at what grows in your area!

Cheri - Go with raised beds! Makes the whole weeding thing so much easier!

Karen - Make sure that you prepare the top of your chicken coop for invaders as well as the bottom. We came home one day to find that the raccoons had eaten through the top and killed all our chickens.

Also leave spaces for future endeavors. We did not and had to take out fruit trees to make way for a outdoor pizza oven and remove a section of concrete when we added a vineyard for wine grapes along the back of the garden lol

Ginger - Start with lots of base plantings shrubs(even the flowerings ones mixed in with the green ones) perennials, perennials, and did I say perennials(they will be more expensive, however they will multiply and you can divide and replant every several years as the get going.) try to plant every thing in an odd number (1,3,5,7 etc.)unless you are trying for a formal look at a gate or door(one on each side, etc)

A cheap way to get started with a cottage garden is to check out neighbors houses, especially older friends even your parents age. I am from GA and we share plants, meaning I have gotten cuttings(make sure you get the roots unless you are going to root them yourself)from friends, neighbors, my parents and inturn I give them cuttings of stuff(mostly periennial but also bulbs) It is just a friendly and neighborly thing to do. And when you are gardening you end up remembering who gave it to you and sometimes naming it or them. For example in the summer when a particuliar plant is fixing to or blooming my parents will say “Cynthia is georgious this year!” I know exactly which plant the are talking about and where it is in their yard. We will also go on plant walks and they will say, “oh look at this, so and so gave this to us.” it is a lot of tradition. We have some daylilies and some bearded iris that where from my grandmothers house when my dad was younger. Her name was Lily so I usually think of her when they are blooming every year.

Also try landscape nurseries, or walmart, sometimes you can get stuff really cheap because they have not watered them and they look “peeked” (sad or aweful) but with a little water and later some fertilizer perrenials will perk right back up for sure as do most other things , they just have to get risd of them. And I am not sure if this is legal or not, but if you do not mind checking their dumpsters they also have to throw them away. Can you tell I have worked at a nursery and I do have a degree in Landscape Architecture. Unfortunately we live in a small neighborhood and my yard is looking a little sad at this tme in my life. But you may have just inspired me.

Sorry for the rambling….

Good luck, I enjoy your blog and your family and I am amazed at all you get done. You and your whole family are great, but your youngest just holds a special place in my heart. She was beautiful the day you picked her up, and she is growing into a lovely little girl. Keep the photos coming.

Carrie Anne - I moved from the city to a farm about 5 years ago. I think not being afraid to try things and being easy on yourself when something didn’t really go as planned (aka- my goat milking season…oh so hard).

As far as plants, we have really different climates, but my one advice is if you are planting herbs, put them close to your house if you can. There is nothing worse than having to trek out (or send someone out) when you need something for cooking. I just replanted all of mine in a bed just outside our house and put some in pots.

I don’t know what vegetables you like, but I find kale, beets, and carrots in loose soil pretty easy to grow. Potatoes are really fun too for kids because of all the hunting for them.

I can’t wait to see the transformation! Enjoy it.

Katie in Oklahoma - Thank you! Thank you! I am so glad you put a link to Back to Eden in this post. I had never heard of it. It is amazing. Have a great time gardening.

the inadvertent farmer - Hey Ashley, here is my bit of advice on gardening. Grow what you love…sounds simple but start with what your family loves to eat and the flowers they adore. It is much easier to tend a garden when it overflows with what you find delicious and lovely! Raised beds rock for simplicity and ease of use. Start small, hard for someone with your personality I know but if you start too large you might get discouraged. Give each kiddo their own garden area to tend, you can never start too young with the love of real food grown at home. Make if fun (remember the KinderGarden series?) try a bean teepee, sunflower house, tunnel…or a maze!

Here are couple links to the winners you chose for KinderGardens

http://faithbuss.blogspot.com/2010/09/kinder-gardens-entry-week-24-wrap-up.html

http://sippinlemonade.blogspot.com/2010/09/kindergardens-week-24-re-cap.html

We garden in a big field too and frankly it was overwhelming but we have expanded and improved every year, have a master plan and slower implement it…and don’t for get to have fun, to stop and smell the roses…and eat the tomatoes!!! Kim

elizabeth H - look at how cute your little chicks are!!
and all that land … how much do you have?
we also live close to a train ~ my boys LOVE it.
i can’t wait to see the *outdoor* beauty you create

Sarah J. - i’m no garden expert. in fact, we bought our house a year ago and i’m in the process of trying to do something with our little yard. but i live right next door to a botanist and his green thumbed wife. they share many tips and she is adamant that gardening is not as stressful as people make it. she is always moving plants around and planting something new where something else died, and she thinks nothing of those plants that croaked. so give it time and don’t think that if things die you’re doing wrong. a garden is ever changing!

Jeanmarie Mineau - I’m extremely impressed with your writing skills as well as with the layout on your blog. Is this a paid theme or did you modify it yourself? Either way keep up the excellent quality writing, it is rare to see a nice blog like this one these days..

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