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Welcome to Under the Sycamore...

Under its large leaves is where we laugh, play, create, eat, rest, dream and live. It is where I watch little ones go from being swaddled on a blanket to wrestling in the grass. Under its shade is where I find time to get my hands messy making something and feeling the most me. It is also where we rest on blankets and stare into the clouds while learning a bit more about each other. In decades to come my mind will travel back to the lives we lived under its branches and I will be grateful for all the memories captured. I hope you enjoy your time visiting my blog - and I hope you leave inspired to breathe in the moments of your life and capture them with the beauty of photography. Thanks for stopping by, enjoy your visit...I love your comments so post away!

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Glad to be back…now let’s get to celebrating!

Did you miss me? “AHHHHHHHHHHH” that is what I have to say about the last few days dealing with this blog. After so many problems with one hosting company I decided to switch hosting companies and hired out another company to do it for me. Obviously, something went wrong. It is fixed now. Thanks for all your emails checking in on me. Did anyone else notice that Google Reader picked up that my blog was gone? Figures.

This makes me happy though.

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I had BIG plans for today’s post and for this week. Chris has been in Haiti since last week and I was hoping to use my evenings for a little blog makeover and writing some fun celebration posts for a BIG REAVEAL today. “Celebrating what?” you ask. My 500th post! I had planned for it to fall on today and for it to accompany all kinds of other new stuff on the blog. Well turns out I opted to share Chris’ twitter account on Thursday (which got lost in the transfer mess and I reposted today) – with no mention of it being my 500th post. So what was suppose to be a fun celebration just kind of got lost in a blog disappearance.

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But that is okay…I used all that extra time to work on the boy’s room…which is now about 6 steps closer to being finished.2.10ZoeLynn-04

So…what to do now? Still celebrate, just a little bit at a time I guess. Instead of a Big Reveal today, I’ll just add a bit each day until I get it all done. Here are some things to look forward to in the coming days….

* 5 Super awesome giveaways!
* Fun pictures of course
* A few new blog features
* Highlights from the first 500 posts
* “What I’ve learned from blogging.”
* Super awesome giveaways

To get this party started, I am bringing back one of your favorite giveaways…Zoe Lynn Designs. This time you don’t have to give it away. The winner will receive a store credit to their etsy shop. Not only does she carry adorable hats for girls, but she also has hats for boys (you can pick the color) and crocheted flip-flops (too cute). So all you mom’s of boys…you can enter too.

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Contest Details:
One entry per person
Ends at 9:00pm US central time Tuesday, February 9th, 2010
Prize is 1 store credit (some limitations may apply) to Zoe Lynn Designs
In the comment section tell me one of your favorite posts from the last 500 (if you are new to the blog just pick today’s!)

Amy - Well considering you are the number one blog I follow, it is so hard to just choose one entry. I look forward every day to coming home after work to see what you have posted for the day. Your pictures inspire as well as point out that life with boys is so much fun. The post that stands out in regards to life with your boys is them splashing in puddles! AS for your beautiful baby girl I enjoy seeing all your day to day portraits. Looking forward to someday having a girl of my own. Thank you for sharing your life you are truly inspirational!!!

Amanda - It's hard to pick a favorite post because I absolutely love everything about your blog... but the post that you did about finishing your 2009 album was wonderful - I get so focused on all the details of doing an album, and I lose sight of the fact that the pictures are what really matters. It's not the paper or the embellishments that make the album, it's the pictures. After your post, I finally started my daughter's first year album (she'll be 8 months old on Saturday, so I'm a bit behind), and I'm proud of myself for how far I've gotten! Thank you so much for being an inspiration!

keely - Yeah, that IS a tough assignment! I love your DIY's, the crafty things you do with your boys and any post dedicated to your lovely home!

Theresa - Congrats on your 500th blog post! I have a lot of favs, but the one that got me started reading your blog(& my favorite) was about your daughter's room. I found the article on design sponge & mosied on over to your blog and have been hooked ever since!! Honorable mentions would be your kitchen remodel & your twisted tea/lemonade concoction. I make it all the time now! Keep up the good work =)

Meagan - One of my favorites was the "You're Gonna Miss This" post. Anytime I hear that song I think of it!

Mandy B - One of my favorite blog posts (besides my own family pictures) was the pics you took of Rob and Rachel with their new baby. It was a great celebration of their journey and a much anticipated photo session!!

Jeannette Swan - Are you kidding? Pick my favorite out of 500 - I don't know if anyone could do that!!!! I don't even know how far back 500 goes...I love all your posst - you inspire me like no one else to "try" to be crafty - I brought my chalk board home from Hobby Lobby today - can't wait to hang it. I love your posts about making a difference in our world and I love all the amazing pictures of your beautiful family!! You are amazing and again, thank you for sharing your gifts with all of us.

Holly L. - I seriously can't pick just one favorite. This one is one of my top picks though : http://ashleyannphotography.com/blog/2009/10/22/she-left-proof-aleidas-challenge/ I love all of your photography, and how you just seem to enjoy life with your rug-rats. I love that you are capturing these precious and fleeting moments of having small children. Most of all, you have helped me to see that I need to do the same in my life. Slow down and enjoy my little girls, and remember to catch those moments on camera too! I'm so glad your blog is back! I was getting worried I'd lost it and your inspiration forever!

Desiree - I've been following you since your DIY on the doily canvas bag was featured on Design*Sponge, and I have to say, your blog has awakened my need for creativity! (Which I've worked so hard to suppress while I'm in grad school!) My favorite post is the visit to Grandpa's farm with the baby goat and Big Brother. This post inspired me to take the leap and buy my first dslr (Canon XSi). I wish you had SnapShops in San Diego!

haley - there you are!!! glad you are back at being a celebrity to all of us!!!

Mandy - I just found your blog a couple of weeks ago and WOW, I'm hooked! I love the pictures of your daughter on a bed with brightly colored Amy Butler-esque pillows. Your photography is unbelieable, and she's a cutie!! Also the pics of your boys jumping on the bed. Well, I just love it all!

Susan - The Stolen hat! It just makes me laugh and it's a reminder of how to turn a frustrating situation into something good.

Michelle - I love all of your DIY projects and also seeing your fun ideas you've done with your boys. As a mom of a 1 1/2 year old, it's given me lots of ideas!

Julie - I do love all of your posts! But the one that stands out to me is when you shared how you keep a glass of dirty water out to remind your boys that not everyone has clean water. I'm inspired by the example you set for your children to think of the world beyond them!

annie - let's see, I'm fairly new - my favorite has got to be celebrating boys, brothers and all things male - i have two boys and one girl - the boys are close in age and the best of friends and worst of enemies and everything in between. I look forward to seeing them grow into the men they will become and journey they have together. seeing your boys wrestle in pictures - might as well have been taken at my house -it is the best kind of challenge!

miss r - (I'm a newer reader.) I loved the Doily Canvas Bag post. It was a really fun project to do on my own and then again with my niece.

linda - My baby girl is 22 so the sweet little offerings should go to someone that can actually enjoy them! So glad you're back, thanks keeping at it to get you, and us, back to normal. The pictures of your sweet little girl are BEAUTIFUL, really lovely, thanks for sharing her and your equally adorable boys with the rest of us. peace to you ...

lauren ingersoll - how can i pick a favorite? i just discovered your blog a few weeks ago and become an instant fan. I love, photography, crafts, and cute kids. a perfect combination. one of my favorite finds is the adorable gracious may shoes!

Moriah - I love your DIY with the birds on canvas. I just went to the craft shop today to buy materials for my own DIY on canvas. I can't wait to try mod podge. Thanks for the inspiration!

Stacey - I don't really have a favorite post. I just found your blog recently. I've read as far back as your announcement of baby girl's name (beautiful by the way). You have a beautiful family but what strikes me most is the way you capture your family. I love my dslr, but I've yet to find a way to capture my family in the way that you do! Your pictures are such an inspiration. So if I have to choose a favorite post, it would be the one with the cat eye glasses onesie...little miss looks precious in those pictures!

Carrie - It's hard to pick a favorite post, since they are all inspiring to me, but I would have to say my favorite was the post on saving your photos. It made me bite the bullet and start burning my years and years worth of pics on to CD's. It is a slow process, but it makes me feel much better to know that all my precious pictures of my kids won't be lost forever if something happens to my pc (which is just a matter of time, haha!). Thanks for taking the time to be an ispiration!!

JennyB - I love your blog and I am a faithful follower ever since I saw your post on the Doily Canvas Bag-lurve it!

Jill J - 500 posts, WOW! I have enjoyed every one (that I've read). The first post that I read was the pallet bed you made for your daughter's room. But, my favorite is either the dirty water that you gave to your kids for dinner...(um, does that make sense?) That one touched me. Or the one where you went flying for your birthday. That one was AWESOME! It is so cool that your hubby is in Haiti! Good for you all doing God's work!

dena - I loved your pirate eye patch post.. and the post with the how to modge podge clothes pins.. your craft ideas are great!

Melissa - I LOVED the one demonstrating how you taught your boys about other children having to drink dirty water. You put glasses of dirty water on the table and then discussed how as a family you could donate a water filter so that children in other countries could have clean water. Ashley, you are so inspiring how to take your kids on moral/spiritual field trips and teach them hands on life lessons they will never forget. I am storing these away for when my Lily is old enough to comprehend, which won't be too long in the future!!! Thank you.

Mara - All of your posts are so great, the pictures of your kids make it all worth it. But the DIY crafts are what I crave the most. My favorite post is the "Christmas Gathering...My Projects" post with links to all of your holiday crafts... I can't tell you how many I made and loved. Thanks again and congratulations!!

Elizabeth - I loved your post about picking out a christmas tree and each year you had another child!...too cute!

Kaitlyn - Yeah for giveaways! I just started following your blog after I found your valentine crayon shavings post. I made it and my son loved it. I would love to learn more about photography eventually and it seems like you are happy to share tips. Good blog. Good blog indeed.

ashley - Gosh I love almost all of your posts. I've only been following a few months but I really liked your kitchen remodel and the quilt you made to donate. You're so clever and crafty. I wish some would rub off on me!

Cara L - i love the pictures you post of your little girl! she is beautiful and her eyes are just gorgeous! it inspires me to take pics of my baby coming in september!

Kari S - I loved the Christmas Gathering post of all your projects! Actually, I haven't read a post yet that I didn't like! You do such a great job!!!

Amber - I enjoy all your posts for different reasons, especially the DIY projects, but the ones that I admire the most are the ones where you teach your kids about giving to others. Teaching my son (and the ones to come) to love, care, and give to others, is very important to me and my husband, and I like hearing your ideas... it makes me think of new ideas too.

Amy - My favorite post? Can I answer ALL of them! I really like the posts with photo tips. If I have to pick just one....I will say todays just to make it easy on me! :)

Kim Baker - My favorite was your 30 th birthday post. I think the airplane ride was super sweet and creative, go Chris!!

Kaley - Well, I started reading your blog after Ohdeedoh posted the photos of your daughter's beautiful room, so I'm gonna have to say that was my favorite post! But since then I have loved checking your blog every day and admiring your beautiful photos!!!

Lesley - Um, yeah, talk about IMPOSSIBLE! I have favorites in different categories, so here goes!: funny post = baby girl's hat, oldest nephew = vacation posts, middle nephew = the goat whisperer, youngest nephew = the water boy, baby sister = 6 months or day in the life of, recipe = chocolate bavarian torte, room = nursery and totally random = carrie underwood rock band mic, just to name a few :) I'm sure I'll have a new favorite, but that will come in the future ;) Love you and congratulations on 500!!!

laura - i discovered your blog via your nursery post (was it apartment therapy or design sponge?). i still love it!

Margie - Yay, your back! I think my favorite was the post with your boys jumping in puddles....they looked like they were having soooo much fun!

Michelle M - I have only been following your blog for about a month now, but I love the adorable librarian onesie you made for your daughter!! I have really enjoyed your pictures! Thank you so much for sharing these bits of you life with us! :)

lorae - Favorite was the one that introduced me to your blog. Design Sponge covering Baby Sister's room. Thank you for all the laughs and sometimes tears.

Mary Craig - I LOVE this blog. Found it a few weeks ago. I think my favorite is when you showed pictures of your living room and the big picture you took of all the shoes lined up. Loved that. And our baby girls are the same age!

candace - congratulations! love the black and whites AND her eyes. favorite posts: 1."she left proof" and 2."the goat whisperer" because 1.makes me wish i had more pics with my mom and 2. that is so my husband when he was a kid. can't wait to see what all you have planned this week!

Heather King - I love them all... I'm a huge fan of anything featuring the boys being brothers as my second boy is due this month and I am looking forward to their brotherhood, but the one that stands out to me is your kitchen remodel... to see a room that so aptly screams "ASHLEY AND CHRIS LIVE HERE!!" and to know that its possible to do that on a small budget and a little creativity is a great encouragement!

Rachel - I haven't read all 500 posts yet, but I love all the pictures and I must say that the post about how to make that layered cake...I made it and I have to admit that it was hard for me to share it with my husband and daughters!

Lindsey Claassen - I love any post that shows your decorating because I love seeing how every woman creates a home that reflects her lifestyle and passions.

Christy Pair - My fav post is wehn you announced you were expecting little sister. I am mama to a girl (2.5) and twin boys (8 months). My kids are blessed to have the experience of having brothers AND a sister. I am beyond blessed to have them!

ashlee - rice night is my favorite. we are doing our first one this week:) everyday i look forward to your posts!!

Dick - I really enjoyed the post and pictures of the boys jumping in the puddles a couple weeks ago.

Erica - My favorites are always the ones with photos of your beautiful baby girl! Your boys are adorable too but my daughter (& only child so far) is just a couple months behind yours & she reminds me a lot of my girl. Love your blog!!

Kristi - I agree with so many of the comments saying its hard to pick just one. Your pictures inspire me so much to want to learn to be a better photographer. I liked the one recently when you answered the questions we asked you. I love all the ones of the boys and legos too! Glad you are back! Congrats on the 500th post!

Allison - One of my favorite posts (hard to pick just one) but was one you did around the Country Music Award time. You had the lyrics of a song with pictures of your family. It made me think of mine and brought a tear to my eye!

KTMerl - I would have to say the eyeglasses onesie...love it!

Amy - I am a pretty new follower...within the past week or so...but now your blog is one I check almost daily! I love looking at all of your photos of your sweet kids. Makes me even more excited for having my own someday (Lord willing!) :) I love how your posts capture everyday life...and thumbing through past posts I would say one of my favorites is the "my life" post back when you were describing life with a new baby girl. Keep up the great work!

whitney freeman - I think my favorite (or one of the many favorites) has to be the one when posted the Christmas ornaments. I did not put up a tree this year for so many reasons. I love the ornaments that you also use for baby showers. Such an amazing idea to share thoughts of love with someone special! I love everyday though....you inspire my craftiness!!

Karla - My favorite was your pallet reading bed post. It's number one on my to-do list - if only I can find such great heavy duty pallets! Love your blog!

Jill R - Too many favorites to choose. Loved the post on "rest" a few weeks ago. Love any and all posts with boys playing outside! (and soon baby sister joining them....) Especially if they are with goats. I still get tears thinking about the one of H and the baby goat. ;) So sweet.

Holly Todd - My favorite post was the on the day of the CMA's and we played the game. So much fun!!

~abi~ - since i actually started following your blog, my fave post was probably the one w/ the colored snow in the bathtub...because it was just so cool and fun and creative, like all your posts are! but after digging through your archives, i also love the one showing how to build the pallet bed!

Samantha - My favorite posts are the ones that I can "copy"... because, thanks to you, Ashley, Ellie's announcement photos were darling, I have a pair of pants that both kids wore hanging up in the nursery to remind me to love the normal days, and while I can't talk Ben into a chalkboard wall, he's {going to have to} consent to a "chalkboard canvas". :) So, whether or not I win the prize, I've already won!

Danielle Townsend - I AM SOO HAPPY YOU'RE BACK!!! What with all my plans to copy your life, I was having a hard time doing so without being able to stalk properly. Seriously. I have big ol' plans to make a fireplace mantle just like yours (kinda).... so, I guess your family room reveal is one of my favorites. It is exactly my taste, BUT, not my husbands. Oh well. You're awesome, sooo glad you're back. (Did I already say that?)

Kaley - I was just reading back over the posts from the last year and I changed my vote, my favorite is from 1/22/09, about the trapeze. I love that you were once offered a job as a trapeze instructor at Club Med, because I actually did that for a few years! Love it!

shelby rice - My favorite was the post that had the pictures of your grandfather with your little girl. Made my heart completely melt.

Tracy - I just want to say congrats on 500 posts!! I stumbled onto your blog only a couple of days ago and have been reading my way through..slowly though...lots of great inspo and craftiness to digest!!! I LOVE your blog...sooo inspiring!

Tracey B - I don't know if I could pick a favorite post. I get so many ideas and so much inspiration for what to do with my own kids and in photography that I couldn't just pick one post. My husband I both enjoy checking to see what is new. Happy 500th!

Robyn Farmer - I am a recent follower that has gone back through and looked at old posts and adore almost all of them. I love the cat-eye onsie you made and all the diy tutorials as well as the lego snapshots.

Suzanne Green - I loved your recent Q&A about photography. And really any of you DIY projects. You are so creative and generous w/ your talents!!

Kate - I was hooked on your blog when you told me the hat lost in Hobby Lobby story. I wanted to run out and find it for you. You rock!

Courtney - I LOVE all your creative ideas! I just recreated your baby closet organizers for my little girl who is one the way...so that has been one of my favorites!

sirje - my favourite is when the photo albums arrived....I want to do it exactly the same way when I have kids.

Lindy - I loved any blog entry that included details of your daughters nursery...I don't have kids yet, and my husband insists we will have all boys, but seeing the creative techniques you used decorating her room makes me want a girl soooooooooo bad!

Erin - my favorite post is the one where you share your photo albums from My Publisher...you inspired me and i am now in the midst of making my first album from that same site! thanks!!

Jaclyn - I love your posts about having boys. After having 2 girls who are both very girly. I now have a baby boy and am enjoying all the boy stuff. It is fun to see someone celebrating how much fun boys can be for a mom as well.

Brooke Bauman - Who can pick just one? One of the posts that comes to mind is when you were trying to figure out what the mystery black foam was that you kept finding all over the house. Turns out your son was biting pieces off the dry eraser to "hydrate" himself. Love 3-year-old responses.

miss me, miss me…wish my hubby could kiss me!

Did you miss me? I’ll be back soon to write more….yeah my blog is back up!!!!!

Got to go get Biggest Brother from school, until then check out what my amazing husband is up to in Haiti!

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Lauren Roberts - Yeah!

Meagan - I know! I friended him the other day on facebook and have been enjoying his status updates! It's really awesome! I have always wanted to do missions. Sounds like they are really doing good work! I bet you miss him, though---and miss his help with the kids!!!

candace - Yay for amazing husbands in Haiti! Looks like yours is working hard and changing lives. Mine returns this Friday. Glad to see the blog back up and running.

Jill R - So glad you are back!

snowing again

Well there won’t be a post tomorrow or Friday, but be sure to check in on Monday and all next week. The blog might be down for a couple of days, but it should be back up and running shortly. I have some celebrating to do and some exciting news. At least it is exciting to me. No I am not pregnant. Enjoy the rest of your week & weekend and I’ll be back on Monday!

Get ready for it….ready for it….ready for it….I HAD FUN IN THE SNOW! Shocking, I know. We made it through a whole 15-20 minutes without one boy crying! The snow was coming down hard and it looked like something out of a holiday romantic comedy. Beautiful. The boys were happy – which makes for a happy mommy. Later the big boys got to go sledding and I was stuck at home with the little ones. I look forward to when the kids are old enough to leave at home so Chris and I can go sledding to all go sledding together. To top it off all those dripping clothes and wet boots in the kitchen forced me to mop…so my floors were beautiful for all of 5 minutes!

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Now, to address the remaining questions from a bit ago (I think these are the last questions):

Suggestions for snow pictures?

For the pictures above my camera settings were: 85mm lens, 1/400, f/2.8, ISO 100. Sometimes in those conditions it is easiest just to switch to automatic…I do increase the contrast in the post processing to make the darks darker and not washed out looking.

Do you have a blog button?

Technically “no”. I have a jpeg image, but haven’t figured out the button thing yet. Do you have a suggestion on how to make them? I hope to get a couple of options made soon.

Will you offer online SnapShops?

Honestly, it never crossed my mind until recently and especially after so many of you asked about it. Part of the fun of SnapShops for me is the ‘real life’ interaction and the practice photoshoots. However, if I can figure out a way to offer them online in such a way that reflects all that I would want….then “yes” maybe one day I will offer that. I will say it won’t be anytime in the near future, maybe next year? I am open to it, so we’ll see.


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Heather Forte - Hi!! I saw that you had gotten a question about blog buttons. I found a pretty easy (well, I figured it out so it must be:) tutorial on how to make them!! Here's the link!! Hope it works for you!! http://oikology101.blogspot.com/2008/09/make-your-own-button-for-your-blogger.html

they arrived {my MyPublisher albums}

Check out Smile & Wave today for a little Valentine’s story about Biggest Brother

Since there was so much interest after last week’s post on my family albums, I thought I’d do a follow up with the actual albums this week.  They just arrived and I am so happy. I do want to say I am in no way ’sponsored’ by MyPublisher, nor are they paying me or giving me free books to post about their product. I am just sharing what I do.

There are so many album companies out there. I am sure there are many that are of better quality than MyPublisher. In fact, the album companies I used for my wedding clients are an example of a MUCH better product. So…if I know there are better ones out there why do I choose MyPublisher for my personal pictures?

1. I ended up ordering 2 100 page albums….this means COST is very important. Since I know I can always get a 50% off or a Buy One Get One Free coupon with MyPublisher – that is a winning point for me.

2. I am very pleased with the quality. Yes, there are other album companies I like, but for the price I am able to pay MyPublisher makes me very happy.

3. I don’t have time to write in my books or custom design every page. If I attempted that I would never get any done. So, I like that I can just drag & drop and they have a ‘pictures only’ template available.

So all that to say I need a fast, easy, affordable album company that has quailty I desire – MyPublisher fits that. In a world where money was not an issue, I’d pay an album designer to custom design my books with top of the line photographic paper….

So…here’s some peeks at my books. I do the standard 8×5x11 size, book jacket books.

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I order two copies because it is very important to me to have a copy sitting out in the living room that the kids feel the freedom to look at without being worried if they accidently hurt the book that mommy will be upset. I want friends to thumb through the books too, but really they are for my kids. The kids put up with my camera in their face EVERYDAY, so I feel like if they want to enjoy the albums they should be able to. If I didn’t have a second copy tucked away I would be on edge and grumpy everytime little boy hands grabbed the books.2.10mypub-22.10mypub-3

2007 & 2008 albums do not have any tears, smudges – “yes”, tears – “no”. The boys had only made it through about 10 pages before 2009 got a tear.

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“Oops” is worth it. They have so much fun looking back at the previous year. Big Brother ‘read’ the albums to Littlest Brother.2.10mypub-72.10mypub-82.10mypub-10

The picture they are looking at is of Biggest Brother completely naked throwing dirt on me. Yep. We got into a dirt fight last year while digging up the garden area. I put dirt down the back of his pants. He ran to the front of the house (pouting I thought). Then came running back around towards me totally naked with the biggest smile I have ever seen. I was so shocked I didn’t even defend myself when he piled dirt on me. We do have neighbors. We don’t have a fence.

It is still one of his personal proudest moments…2.10mypub-112.10mypub-12

Big Brother especially likes to do funny things to his own pictures. For instance, making himself eat the plastic looks-like-a-cow-but-it-is-really-a-jaguar-missing-all-the-paint animal. Goofball.2.10mypub-14

Thanks for all the emails for referrals on my last post,

Here’s another Buy One Get One Free coupon for those of you still thinking you might want to try it out:

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If you’ve made it this far on this post, here’s a heads up: Next Week is going to be FUN, FUN, FUN at this blog!

UPDATED: Yes, I know my long time blog readers are probably shocked not to see a LOST post today. I am in mourning…mourning the final season…mourning  I won’t be home to see it tonight (we live in the stoneage…no dvr or whatever those things are called). Guess I’ll be watching it online tomorrow…don’t spoil the premier for me!

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Rachel Ridd - I really need to do this. Thanks for the suggestion. I take so many pictures and just leave them on my hard drive - such a waste!

Jo - Thanks Ashley for the coupon! I might have to try this out!

Christy - Such a great book, I am starting to work on mine. Thanks!

Alba - Last year my computer burned itself, authomatic combustion, and I lost all my pictures. Thanks God my mother has a copy on her pc. I should learn from it, and make albums like yours. I have to do it.

Lesley - Love it! I can't wait to sit and go through your book. I love the last pic, too funny. I must say, though, a little surprised not to see a LOST post today!

Lauren Roberts - I'm excited to see your book too. I'm with Lesley though....No LOST post?

christina larsen - Neat idea. This totally beats scrapbooking in my opinion. I sure don't have time to do it, and feel guilty that I don't. I might have to give that a shot.

Kelly - Oh those are so pretty. I stopped printing pictures and putting them in albums a couple years ago (odd that my youngest is 2, hmm...) so this may be the perfect alternative. I love that you have the back-up in a firesafe. I'm ridiculously paranoid about stuff like that. I won't even tell you how many times our digital copies are backed up. :)

my wonderful, wonderful world of boys

Pictures like these (now I want a bed in our back field to play on all spring, summer & fall) and these (you HAVE to watch the slideshow…AMAZING) make having a house full of girls seem like so much fun. And I know if I did have a house of girls I would love it, but instead I have a house full of boys (and one baby girl that is obsessed with trying to get her brother’s Legos). It is a LOUD, active adventure around here all the time.

“Mommy, pretend like you are sleeping in the Legos and a Lego Spaceship landed on your head and let me take a picture.” -Big Brother, 3 yrs.

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As a mom of 3 boys I know there is not near the amount of fun stuff out there regarding boys as there is for girls. I was excited to hear that Dana of Made and Made by Rae are teaming up for the entire month of February to celebrate boys. I can’t wait to see what they come up with…look what I read on Dana’s blog:

To “moms of boys” out there, we’ve heard your woes! There just isn’t enough info shared amongst us about BOYS. There aren’t enough clothing ideas, enough tutorials, enough fresh ideas. Well ladies (and little gents), we’re going to stock your Tonka Trucks full of info!

Throughout the month you’ll find:
* TONS of Boy tutorials
* Boy clothing ideas
* TWELVE guest bloggers! (this part REALLY excites me)
* Boy crafts
* Boy bags
* Baby Boy stuff
* Boy giveaways
* Boy design tips

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POST UPDATE: The clock in the boy’s room doesn’t work. I need to replace the mechanical part…it was around 3pm, not 8:23am! Also, I am not one of the guest bloggers for The Boy.

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Alba - YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks, thanks, thanks. I'm already looking forward it!

Courtney Connelly - Love this post! Thanks for the link to Dana's blog, I will be checking it out this month!

Amanda - Hooray! I too live in the wonderful world of boys and can't wait to see your posts! "A life with boys is full of joy!" Amanda Queen Bee Designs by Amanda queenbeedesignsbyamanda.blogspot.com

Jill R - Awesome! Can't wait!

Jo - At 8:23AM they are this crazy? :) That's what makes boys huh? I always love your photos, they are awesome!!!!!

amanda torres - I love, love, love the look on Big Bro's face in the last picture. It's like, "I FINALLY got you!" So funny.

Lauren Roberts - I love, love, LOVEd the Kristen and Kayla slideshow. Thanks you for sharing that.

bopha - it's about time someone stood up for all the little boys around-they have the right to be cute too!

Evie - I stumbled upon your blog a couple weeks ago and I am so in love with all you beautiful photos! Your family is lovely too! Coming from a houseful of GIRLS(4 girls, 1 brother), I totally wanted to have boys when I "grow up"... :D You make it look like so much fun! I wish you were in SC and still booking! I'm getting married in a couple months! Oh well! :D

Shannon Arnold - I have 3 boys. Your photos make me want to keep my camera handier. I related to your post so much. Love having boys!

robyn - love it! these picutres make my heart gush... and makes me want to embrace my two boys today... they make me crazy! but they are great :)

Katie H. - Bring on the BOYS!! Also, glad to see that the adjustable waistband jeans pulled as tight as they will go runs in other families other than mine!! My boys can't seem to ever fill out their pants.

the inadvertent farmer - As a mom of four boys I am so excited...and when I first read about it you were the first person who came to mind when I thought of the guest bloggers I would want to here from so...yeahhhh! Kim

ashlee - your boys are precious!! I cant wait to see what boy stuff they share...its so hard to find:)

jeny - where did you get the bunkbed. i'm looking for one just like that. not to mention ... your boyz are beautiful. and i completely agree that there is not a hushed moment in the house (and that's okay) there is always something going on.

Kelly - Yea for boys! I have three too and love every minute of it! Coming from a house of all girls, it's a totally different world. Although I think I understand my dad a little better now :) Thanks for sharing this exciting news about boy stuff! Should be FUN!

annie - As a mother of two boys - I am really looking forward to this -

Kelly - SO glad the clock is broken! You were getting TONS of sympathy from me :-) LOVE LOVE LOVE the boys' room. So excited to follow Dana's blog, thanks for sharing!

katie - Ashley! What a great post! I LOVE the pics! I really want to know where you got the boys' bedding! I love the black and orange circle print! And also as a mother of 2 boys, I'm looking forward to the new boy ideas to come in the blog!!

Tess S. - ecstatic! i can't wait for the month of february and all of it's boy filled goodies. i bought the pattern for the rollie pollie- i'm excited to start that project. and i love the air-plane print in the boy's room! it's the theme for my little guy's room. shirtless boys in jeans. i was the youngest girl, with 3 older brothers. those pictures are basically my memories of them. love it.

gisele - Just wanted to let you know i really enjoy your blog and gorgeous pictures! Have you seen this on etsy? http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39642168

Anna Joy - I'm excited for the month of celebration of boys! I can't wait to make stuff for my little man!!!

Ashley - I have 4 boys (and a baby girl), and these pictures remind me of what goes down at my house everyday! Even the way their jeans are on with the underwear sticking out of the top and the adjustable waist elastic hanging out makes me think of mine. Boys are AWESOME! (Baby girl is nice, too:)

meg duerksen - i have a few of both....and i like them both. boys are way louder....as if you didn't know. :)

Jesse - Oh good! I thought only my rowdy bunch, including 1 girl stood in the window sill! Makes me feel better!

Kristin Eldridge - I TOTALLY agree that there's so much more ideas and things for girls than boys. TOtally excited about this. Would you mind posting more pics of your boys room? It looks so cute!

erin conrad - your blog makes me happy :)

julie - Let's trade kiddos for a weekend... I always thought I would have boys. Lots of boys. Not lots of pink and glitter. But now I wouldn't even know what to do with a boy!!! Crazy. I love to see the happiness that exudes from your home. Love.

The Junkin Chick (Sherri) - I have 3 boys and I know how much of a joy they are. I wouldn't trade them for anything in the world!! Well, maybe for a weekend at the spa!

Elizabeth - Yay for boys! As a Mom of 5 boys, I know there is such a brotherly bond. You can tell your boys love to be with each other!

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In regards to your questions from last week’s questions…I know there are still some left to be answered. I’ll finish answering those next week!

Here are a few answers to yesterday’s post: I tried Snapfish & Shutterfly, but was not pleased with the quality. I have considered using a Blurb book – I like the feature of it being able to be larger than 100 pages. Ultimately I went with MyPublisher because of price. The Blurb and MyPublisher books seemed about equal in price until you factor in 50% off or a Buy One Get One Free coupon (which is a big deal when you are ordering around 400 pages total). I always wait to order my albums until I have one of those coupons. They email me one each year around this time. MyPublisher works like Blurb in that you can pull in all the pictures off your computer, but just use the ones you want. I go through and select my pics because I want to tweak the post processing on them before I pull them into the MyPublisher program. I pick the pictures I want based on what I like and what I don’t want to forget. I probably only end up using 25-50% of the pictures I take. (I’d like to use them all, but my wallet would not like that). MyPublisher does allow for different themes…including text. I choose not to add text because I like the ‘pictures only’ look and I would never get the books done if I added text! We keep journals for the kids.

Here is a link to what I do in regards to saving and backing up my pictures.

So the other day I was thinking…

I am 30. I am a mom of four. Maybe it is time to change my wardrobe to something that reflects this stage of life a bit more….

I went to the store and can you believe for $5.00 I found the PERFECT outfit?!1.10pillow-01

Perfect for two new pillows that is.1.10pillow-03

The ability to remove pillow covers is VERY important in my house. Messes happen. Messes happen a lot!

I kept the skirt slit on the houndstooth one and added a vintage button…to allow me to remove the pillow cover.

On the white one I added a flap with vintage trim…to allow me to remove the pillow cover. I like mine better than this $39.00 one.1.10pillow-05

For those wondering why I didn’t do a tutorial on this…I don’t really know how to sew. I make things up as I go and I usually make a lot of mistakes in the process. I should have done a tutorial on what not to do. For instance, when adding a flap to fold over make sure before you sew it that the flap is on the outside not the inside. Otherwise you have to remove a lot of tiny stitches and that is not fun.1.10pillow-06

Since I didn’t do a tutorial, I did think I’d share a few outtakes from my pillow making process. Looking at the chaos surrounding my projects it makes it seem worth it just to buy stuff sometimes!1.10pillow-081.10pillow-10

I know this is blurry. She was jumping so fast I couldn’t get any of her in focus. She likes to jump.1.10pillow-111.10pillow-12

And even now as I try to write this post I have a little one trying to crawl off my bed. I’m tired…1.10pillow-14

And for my Friday etsy finds….in honor of Valentine’s Day

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annie - okay so first i was afraid, because it just didn't seem to work (the outfit that is), but then i saw the darling pillows - they're perfect! they look great with the moulded rocker. your crafting looks like mine, lots of (ahem) helpers! love the etsy pics - esp the live what you love - might need to check that one out! happy friday!

Jo - Ashley, I DON'T KNOW HOW YOU SAY YOU CAN'T SEW AND IT LOOKS PERFECT!!!! I got a sewing machine for Christmas (2009) and i've made curtains and pillows and i'm not really satisfied with how i do it. =\ GR! I love the sweater pillow... WOW! Much cuter than the PB one. SERIOUSLY! You did a fantastic job. Like I have said before I really enjoy your blog... it's very bright, colorful and full of fun kiddos! Always something new!

tiny twig - dude, do you EVER sleep?! i am sooooo impressed with you "go-ness". i feel like with 2 boys ages 3yr and 1yr i'm running around like crazy with them and even getting something creative done every once in awhile is a feat in itself. how do you keep the boys from destroying your house? mine seem completely bent on doing that. :)

karen brown - I use my MyPublisher too and it is awesome! Just do a google search for "mypublisher+coupon codes" and I can pretty much always find some sort of coupon. Also, if you are a Costco member, you can login to costco.com and then hit the photo button and you get an automatic 20% off at checkout. I am so jealous you are done! I promised some for the g'parents as Christmas gifts and they are still in the works!

Christy - Lovin those pillows! The ruffle is so pretty

Sara - I love MyPublisher! Just finished my two books. Yes, this year took two albums worth, like 700 pictures. I dislike that after about 60some pages, the program freezes/slows way down. I talked to tech support and they said that the albums will hold 99 pages, but the slowing down was something they have regular complaints about. Thus, my needing two albums with 40 and 60 pages respectively. Love the pillows!!! Adorable. The outfit was perfect foil to a segue to the pillows. :D

Shannon Phillips - I just almost peed myself laughing so hard at your awesome outfit. I love you girl. Thanks so much for making me smile. You have encouraged me to work on my new pillow covers. Ours too get stained much quicker than I get sick of them and want new ones. (That is very very fast.) ;)

candace - I like your version better too! That whop-doodle ruffle is fun. Have you ever used Picaboo albums or just MyPublisher?

Emily - I love the pillows! I was recently given some not so cute pillows I had no clue what to do with...I can totally cover them! Thanks for the idea!

Anna Joy - those pillows are beautiful! so creative! good find on the cheapie clothes for them!

Allison - Love the pillows. By the way, what external hard drive do you have? I have a mac and looked at the apple time machine but it had bad reviews so I feared gettting it. Thanks again!

ashlee - you scared me with the outfit:) i love that sweater pillow!! my daughter has a pink cableknit she refuses to wear to it is destined for a pillow!

Lauren Roberts - I myself was thinkin "Oh my, she is finally looking way older than she is in that outfit!" Which is really hard for you to do. I like the pillows!

Shannon - Ok, this is off subject, but where did you have that big pic over your mantle done, and can we see the full thing. It looks amazing (each of your shoes??) and I just need to see the whole thing!

Anna Joy - not old...older-er. :) your comment on my blog made my day because, well, you're my MOM ICON (besides from my own mother, of course). Yay for me. Have a good day and stay warm :)

jill tracy - Wowsers--those are too cute. Love them both! Yours is way cooler than than the PB one--seriously!

Jodi - Adorable. I love your style!!!

Meagan - Haha, you're so funny! I was thinking, hmmm...that outfit...not loving it... The pillows rock! I agree, you're way too modest about your sewing skills.

Heather - Those pillows ARE so perfect! And what a fun Etsy list this week. I've already found 3 thinks I want to make mine!! Have a happy weekend :)

amanda torres - I now know why you have 4 kids. With an outfit like that, how can your husband resist all that sexiness!

Serena Lowe - I must admit when I saw the outfit....I though this girl needs some help.....then when I saw the pillows, I was relieved!! They are beautiful! I so need to learn to sew!!

christina larsen - Love the pillows. I never would have thought to make pillows out of clothing. Maybe I should start shopping in my closet for new pillow fabric. :)

Marianne Strong - Love the pillows, too funny, I was not sure where it was going. Your photography is gorgeous!

Dick - You don't look 17 in that outfit. We sure enjoy reading your blog each day

Tiffany - I absolutely ADORE all your projects and creativity...your blog has become my number one go to for project inspiration!!

Jesse - I love those Mr. & Mrs. pillows! And can totally relate to your crafting conditions.

Megan - You are so inspiring! The pillows are darling!!! I am really into re purposing things in 2010:) and I noticed that someone used plastic shopping bags to stuff their handmade pillows with. I am dying to make a pillow filled with plastic bags, so maybe I will grab an old sweater and go for it:)

Alba - thanks God the outfit is for pillows! for a moment I thougt you were serious, jejeje. Really nice pillows, anyway. I like your non-sew skills ;-)

reyanna - Looks awesome! Way to go! And that Pottery Barn pillow is $39 for the cover ONLY! That doesn't even include the pillow! LOL. Yours are fabulous! You inspire me so much. Thank you! :)

I can break free from my computer now! {and some of your photography questions}

After HOURS chained unhappily to my computer I finally finished our 2009 family albums. I have put all crafty and house projects to the side to get these babies done. So glad it is over! This would be an easy project…the software is fast and simple….but I have a BAGILLION photos! Every year I weed through our pictures and pick my favorites to put into MyPublisher albums. There are lots of album companies online, I go with MyPublisher because of the quailty, but also because I can usually use a 50% off coupon. That 50% is huge when your family album consists of 2 100 page books. I also always order two copies of each book – one for the coffee table for my kids and our friends to enjoy and one copy is stored in our fire safe box. I really don’t enjoy making these because it is such a big and daunting project (since I feel the need to edit and tweak every picture I use in the book). However, with great discipline I finally finished…5 hours before my 50% off coupon expired. I know when they arrive in the mail I’ll be so grateful I took the time to do it. I don’t order a copy for each kid…they can fight over them when I am gone :)

On a totally selfish note, if you think you want to do a MyPublisher album…email me. MyPublisher does a referral program…if I submit your email as one of my referrals, they will email you and invite you to make a book (usually with Buy one Get one free coupon)….and I get a $20.00 credit. I know that is totally selfish, but hey I am all for taking advantage of my blog readers! (kidding – kind of).

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And now back to answering some of your questions from last week:

What camera do you use and what lens do you use the most?

I shoot with a Canon 5D and Canon 30D. I go back and forth between my 85mm f/1.8 and my 50mm f/1.4

What lens would you recommend everyone have?

A 50mm f/1.8 (Canon’s is around $100.00)…not sure about the other brands. The smaller the number after the “f” the more blurry of a background you can achieve.

I love my 50mm lens, but am getting a lot of blurry photos…why?

With every camera lens there is a certain distance from your subject that the lens can no longer focus. To see this get super close to your subject and try to focus, then slowly back up until your hear the ‘beep’ that most cameras make when they focus. I am guessing your blurry pictures are due to either being too close to your subject, the lens is set on manual focus (little button on the lens usually) or you just aren’t focusing before taking the picture. Some cameras allow you to use different buttons for focusing and taking pictures…that way you can focus with one finger and take the pic with another.

What sort of post-processing tools/actions do you use…do you do a lot of post processing or do you pictures look like this out of the camera?

I use Adobe Lightroom, Adobe Photoshop, Kubota Actions, Jesh DeRox Fine Art Textures and Totally Rad Actions. I post process everything you see on the blog. Mainly I tweak contrast, sharpening and color. Some pictures have very little if any post processing, others have more. I try to get every picture right ‘in the camera’ – I don’t have a lot of time to sit around and process pictures.

What is your favorite camera setting for shooting active kids?

There isn’t one setting just for active kids. Every picture takes into account the subject, the action, what you are trying to capture, the available light, reflections, etc….they all work together, so I can’t say I have one setting for active kids. A good place to start is the “action” mode on your camera – it usually looks like someone running.

What is a good setting for early morning and afternoon light?

See answer above. Lighting is always different. In general if you have clear skies you can keep your ISO as close to 100 as possible and then it depends on what you are doing portraits (try your Av mode), action (try your Tv mode).

What setting do you use most often and how often do you use your flash?

I shoot fully manual. I usually set my aperture and ISO first and go from there. If I were using one of the automatic creative settings I would probably use the Av mode the most. I rarely use my flash. I really only use it when there is no option for natural light (inside churches, indoor wedding receptions, bedtime, bathtime, etc.). I tend to plan activities with my kids when I know I will have natural light….even do that with DIY tutorials.

What dslr would you recommend for a beginner?

I would stick with Canon or Nikon if you think you’ll want to invest in more lenses or a better camera down the road. For Canon I would go with any version of the Canon Rebel, the Canon 20D, Canon 30D, Canon 40D…depending on your price range. I would get a Canon 30D (model is about 4 years old) over a newer Rebel. That is just me. I am not familiar with Nikon. If anyone has Nikon suggestions, please let them in the comment section.

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Sophie - For Nikon models, I shoot with a D40X. It's extremely user friendly and I just love the look of the photos from it. As a comparison, my brother has a Canon 30D, and personally, I much prefer the Nikon. Just adding my two cents worth (:

Jamie - I have a Nikon D200. It is almost 3 years old, and I take photos EVERY day. It has never given me a problem. I LOVE it. I am not a professional, and have found it very easy to use. They have come down in price considerably since I bought it. I have the two lenses that you recommended....and agree....they are great choices! *I would love to be referred to MyPublisher, so I will send an email! thank you!

Christy - Ashley I am totally digging these albums,and what a great idea to order 2 books. I wanted to scrapbook mine, but I am so far behind it's crazy.

anne c - geez I love your pictures. Your style is my favorite...your photos are always perfect...exposure, color and so crisp! I get frustrated with myself when my photos don't look like yours :( I just have to keep learning...

Brooke - Your album looks absolutely beautiful darling. If I were your kids, I would be fighting hard for those in the future! Thank you so much for answering the camera questions, I'm a canon shooter myself & any tips are super helpful to me. I use blurb normally to make my books, but it seems like mypublisher might have more freedom than blurb, invite? :)

Amy - Ashley I LOVE you books! Thank you for introducing me to mypublisher! I just got my 2009 Family book done too!! I just wish mine looked as fabulous as yours!!

Deanna - Oh please go ahead an refer me.....hopefully you'll have enough referrals to get copies for all the kiddos.

monique - A nikon d90 is also a great starter camera and has received great reviews and even does better than some of the more expensive models. Great job on your album! I have yet to put one together for myself, so much work.

Mara - Sign me up! I am about to have baby #2 and haven't made a first year book yet for baby #1! Perfect, I have two more months to make it happen! I love your book layouts - FANTASTIC! Oh, and thanks for answering my question! Super helpful.

Susan - Beautiful books! On a photography-related note, how do you organize and store your photos? Do you burn DVD's, leave them online, etc.?

Kari S - Awww! The book is so neat! I seen my head in one picture! LOL! You do such a great job and have a wonderful talent!!!

Rebekah Jean - Sure refer me! I've been planning to make one of those for a while now anyways. I used a Nikon D40 for a while, it was a great beginning camera. It is very simple and easy to navigate. I also have the Nikon D300s...it's wonderful as far as nicer cameras go....not so much a beginner camera.

the inadvertent farmer - Ughh I still need to do mine and my coupon runs out at the end of the month...not sure I will make it, sigh. I'm not good with time constraints...or constraints of any kind if we're being honest. Kim

Stephanie - I would love an invite to MyPublisher.com! Just finished browsing and was very impressed! Thanks for sharing!

Kelli - I would love to make a book! Let me know if you need anything from me to get you that $20!

Jill R - It is amazing to see how much they grow in just one year! Definitely worth all that hard work. I meant on the book...but same goes for the kiddos. ;)

Kate A - Please refer me! I'm all for helping you get another $20 - you'll need it with all the gorgeous pictures you take, I'm amazed only have a couple albums! :) Also, if you have experience in this, how does MyPublisher compare with Blurb or Shutterfly? I wish I could see samples to compare in person. I've used Shutterfly before and have been disappointed with the quality (thin pages).

Katherine M - please send me an email for MyPublisher. Your book is GORGEOUS! Maybe an invite will prompt me to get busy and get my 2009 pics in a book. On a different note, I'm so so glad I stumbled across your blog. LOVE it!

Amanda - Your album looks fantastic! I also have a GAZILLION pictures to put in an album - what is your process for organizing your pictures and narrowing down to what you're going to use in your books?

jennifer - refer me jkingteach@yahoo.com

Jane - Your books look wonderful! How I only wish I had so many beautiful photos to fill mine with. Have you ever tried www.blurb.com? When I first shopped around for a photobook publisher, I looked through quite a few. What I liked most about Blurb is that you're not limited to 100 pages, and their prices seem more reasonable. They also have many layouts which allow you to add in text (mypublisher probably has that also, but didn't at the time when I started with Blurb in 2004 or 2005). The other thing I love is that there is no need to choose your pics ahead of time. You can just drag them into the software directly from your computer file folders where you keep your pictures - super quick! If you're interested, I can send you an invitation to see one of my books (if you promise to overlook the very amateur, pre-DSLR, point-and-shoot photos.) :)

Michelle - I would LOVE to make a book! Put me on your referrals!

MJ - Thanks so much for sharing about the MyPublisher books. I'd love to see actual pics of how the books turn out. I've never used MyPublisher and am curious to see what they actually look like. My mother-in-law wants a photo book for each year of our 2 year old's life. She's offered to buy an additional one for me, so I'm going to get started soon! I will definitely send you my email to list as one of your referrals.

anne c - oh and you can refer me too, please! :)

Anna Joy - i am soooo doing this! refer me! annajoypham@gmail.com :)

Jill - Hi Ashley! I love, love, LOVE your blog! One of my favorites. :) Please refer me for My Publisher. Thanks!

Meredith - WOW! Great Books! I would LOVE a referral...Thanks! Question: Do you do the Classic Hardcover Book or the Deluxe and for the format did you use the Just Photos layout? I can't wait to get started on my first book! Thanks!

Julia Crigler - I am totally doing one of these. I have been looking into them and was afraid that I wouldn't be happy with Snapfish's quality. Thanks so much for the recommendation. My email is spaldingjulia@hotmail.com. LOVE LOVE LOVE your blog!

Melissa Davis - I make a book for both my nephew and my niece each year for their birthday through My Publisher. I have been pleased with the quality. I order the smaller 5x7 books, 2 copies (one for my self and one for them). I didn't know that My Publisher had a referral program though. Good to know.

MJ - Thanks for the referral! :) What type of book do you order from MyPublisher? The Deluxe?

Emma - Hi Ashley, I love your blog! Motivates me so much! Thank you. Just wanted to know, do you put events that your family go to, such as other kids birthdays etc. into your year album? Also, do you put other special photo occasions of your friends or family, such as a new baby, into your albums or do you just have photos of your family?

Valerie - I LOVE your photo books. I'd like to do something like that for my little monkey. I've decided to forget trying to scrapbook and go this route instead. I really only like the pictures anyway. His first birthday is coming up, so I suppose I should get started soon! I did a Blurb book not too long ago for my Mom, and I thought the paper quality could be better, but I did like the ability to make it just the way I wanted. I found your blog recently and I'm enjoying it. Your kiddos are adorable and your pictures of them are just beautiful. I'd love to be able to do that, but I'll have to settle for watching you for inspiration!

brittany - It was so nice to meet you again at Laurens Birthday! I was just looking at those books! I would love to give you 20$ - please refer me :)

shawna - Will you please send me an email referral for mypublisher? Thanks so much! I love your pictures. You are inspiring me to actually make photo albums for my kids.

Jill - I would love a referral!

Chelsea - I would love a referral too please :) Thanks!!

reyanna - I LOVE this! I'm a scrapbooker, but sometimes when I see books like these, I want to chuck the paper and just put a collage of photos in a book like this. :D I do LOVE to create though, and scrapbooking really is a creative outlet for me. And I just love telling stories. :-) Thank you so much for sharing your life with us! :)

Kasey Laughlin - Hello! I just came across your blog and love your MyPublisher books! I would love to try them out as I am hoping to start 2009's soon! Can you refer me? :) Thanks!

molding hearts

Thanks for the suggestion on the tea options yesterday…I will be trying some of those out. I recently went to a shower where the mom-to-be recieved a small can of PlayDoh. The giver (her mother-in-law) said it was meant to be a reminder of the great role a mom plays in molding the heart of her child. What a beautiful picture and fun gift I thought.

We love playing with playdoh at our house. Here is our favorite recipe to make it at home.

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Sheer joy. He loves molding his playdoh. As I watched him and thought of playdoh in the context of molding my children, it reminded me of the sheer joy I feel being a mom. I love being a mom….LOVE IT.1.10playdoh-04

It’s a big deal – to mold a child’s heart. A big, fun, exciting, rewarding deal.1.10playdoh-07

And again, to answer a few more of your questions from last week:

Are you planning on adding more kids to your family in the future?

To be honest I wasn’t sure if I wanted to answer this question…it just seemed very personal. However, the more I thought about it the more I knew I wanted to answer it. I love being a mom.  Of course I love my kids, but I just really like them too. I look at big families and smile thinking of how much fun they must have. So, yes, we hope our family expands again….we have dreamed of adopting since before we were married.  We hope to begin the adoption process in the coming year…..

How do you organize your day and have time to blog?

I blog at night and during naps. I usually try to write a couple of posts at a time. My day is fairly organized and scheduled. The kids and I have a daily routine…without it I think I would be sinking rather than swimming….though there are sure days of sinking. I even schedule time during the day for undistracted playing. That might sound sad, but I have learned if I don’t tell myself “this is play time only” then I find myself saying “Just a minute” or “hold on” or answering the phone, checking email, doing laundry, etc. instead of giving my kids undistracted attention from me.  Our schedule is flexible…always room for a friend to stop by or a spur of the moment trip to the park, but when we are doing the day to day the schedule is the only way I can feel some sense of control in “the crazy house” (what I lovingly call my home).

I enjoy this funny little blog and I make time for it for many reasons.  To be honest there are many days I think of stopping because it does take time…and I wonder its value for others and myself. It usually works out that just when I think I’ll stop blogging someone emails or leaves a comment that is just the thing I needed to hear. So thank you.

Where do you get your creative inspiration?

Blogs. Magazines. My kids. My friends. Nature. Just about everywhere and everything really.

Do you sleep?

Like I did before I had kids? NO. Last night I got up at 2am with one boy, another boy crawled into my bed at 4:30am because he “needed to cuddle”, my daughter was hungry at 6am…I slept in between those. If they would all sleep like my oldest then I could answer “Yes” to this question. As much as I would love sleep…I know one day that sweet boy won’t want to cuddle in the middle of the night. I know that all too soon this too shall pass.

Alba - who has kids and sleep all the night? no one I know. It's a time in our lives that will pass, sooner than we expect. Please, please, please, do not stop blogging, I love your blog and your comments. It's one of my good moments of the day around 14:00 (local time). Petonets, alba

anne c - thanks for sticking with your blog and not stopping...I love reading it everyday and you keep life real. As for the sleep thing.. I am slowly learning to embrace this phase of no sleep. I have to remember that it won't be forever and God wouldn't give me anything I couldn't handle...but that doesn't mean I don't miss it from time to time :)

christina larsen - I appreciate you taking the time to blog everyday. I sure don't! :( However, I do start my day off by reading yours. It makes me smile, or think, or it inspires me to think out side of the box.

Jodi - Thanks so much for answering the questions. I have thought about doing the 2 posts every time....I should try that. I have that same feeling when I see big families (including yours). A big smile. Thanks for continuing to blog. Although I know it does take time, it is TRULY appreciated by all.

Jodi - PS--- even if you didn't write anything (to save time). The pictures alone are worth a thousand words!!!!

amy - Re: the sleep question, that was mine. I guess I meant more along the lines of, do you stay up till 3am crafting and blogging, ie is that where you find the time to do all your projects--at the expense of sleeping! I have two little ones of my own, and we have our share of wake-ups every now and again. I hear that when they are teenagers you can't get them out of bed.....: )

Jody - Ok..I usually don't write to blogs..but I must now...KEEP WRITING! Your blog adds a small joy to my day. I am a Mom of four boys - four years and under (yep, triplets in there!) and most days I am running from one boy to the other & your blog gives me a time out & GREAT IDEAS for crafts. We've made your chocolate cake, your mod podge clothespins & your bird canvas (which inspired me to do more boards - I wish I could send you pictures!!) Really, your blog reminds me to stop & enjoy just the fun of the days spent home with my kids & I appreciate your blog. Thank you! (P.S. Another inspiration - your photos of details - kids' shoes! I love it.)

Kara P - Just to let you know, I would be VERY sad if you ever stopped blogging!!! You totally inspire me!!!

ashlee - please dont stop! i check your blog every morning before my kids get up...it gives me a creative spark EVERYDAY. your photographs are beautiful, your crafting is so doable(is that a word?!), your mothering is inspiring, your craftivism is so generous. you are such a blessing to my life and i KNOW the lives of others. i am so thankful that you take the time to write this blog. God is using you in an awesome way! can you share more of your daily schedule? this is something i struggle with so much and I would love to see how you handle it:)

Mara - I would understand if you felt you needed to stop blogging. But, I would so sad if you did. Yours is truly one of my favorite blogs not only for the beautiful images, amazing crafts ideas (of which I have tried tons) but also for the realness you bring. I am so inspired by your every post and hope to become a better crafter, photographer, mother and person! I wish you the very best luck with the adoption process, as soon as we have our baby boy in April we will be considering adoption as well. Thank you for taking the time to listen to your readers and answering our questions.

Jill R - Thank you for blogging! On good mornings I am anxiously watching the clock so I can check the new blog post. On crazy days, the blog is my afternoon "treat." I love your pictures, love your words, love your craftiness, love everything! Your blog is my daily reminder to not take a single day with my boys for granted. What a precious gift!

Carla - i think you are a really great example of being a mom. i don't have kids yet, but i appreciate your ideas and positive outlook on it. and you have such cute ones, you shouldn't stop! :)

lisa - I have to say I was recently introduced to your blog and LOVE it! It makes me smile and I LOVE the pictures. I agree you could just post pictures, they are worth a thousand words. I am expecting our third child and wonder where you find the time to get all the things done in a day. Thank you for blogging and welcoming us into your family

mandi - i understand setting the undistracted play time. i have to do that too- there are just so many things needing to be done. i love being a momma too. it always makes me sad when parents seem to want to rush this process of being little. i enjoy being in the thick of it. like you, the late night cuddles, the early breakfasts (part one and part two), just love it. i think it's all how you look at it, you know? "a cheerful heart doeth good, like medicine". yep.

rachel denbow - Not allowed to stop blogging. Not allowed! Someday, when you feel up for it, I'd love a peek at your written out daily schedule. I feel up a creek sometimes with nap times for Ruby being a little unpredictable still and Sebastian needs a little more routine or we're going to be having hourly battles for the next few years on when it's time to do what. Right now we give him a list of what comes first, second, third and a 5 minute warning when it's time to wrap up on thing and move on to the next but the list of things is NOT the same most days and I don't easily function in a self-imposed structure. I like to see what works for other mamas so I can tailor it a little. But...only when you feel like sharing.

Sunshine Burns - I truly appreciate your words, your spirit and your blog. It's such an encouragement to hear (and see the pictures) of your real world/home... I'm a couple of steps behind you as a mother and you have been a blessing and great encouragement to me as I've been reading the last few months. It is honoring to see how you are raising your little men (and lady!) to love the Lord! Your post today hit home- scheduling free play time needs to be a part of my day- giving my children disctracted minutes is not the same as sitting down with them with undivided attention! Would you share your rough/loose schedule...!?

Ruth - Great post. Being a blogging mother of four who wants to honor the Lord with my time, I've had to follow through with many of the same things that you've described here. Thanks for sharing--helps to see that I'm not the only one...:)

Katy - I was wondering if you might give a tutorial for the awesome ceiling decoration in baby sisters room? pretty please?

Melissa - I think one of the reasons I am so drawn to your blog is your confidence, you seem to take on life with open arms with a "come what may" attitude. It really is encouraging to see a little taste of your life, with all it's mess and joy and color and "real"ness". It makes me smile and reminds me to be thankful for my own little ones and take advantage of the moments I'm given. it is wonderful that your family is looking to adopt - I hope you do! What a blessing you would be to a child in need of God's love.

Margie - Your blog is totally fab! Glad you take the time to do it, I have found so much inspiration in your posts....the chalk board, your faux fireplace (totally dig it!), your shoe print.....the list goes on and on! 'Sleep' and 'Mother' aren't two words that usually go together, at least not in my house anyway :0).

Yanet - This is the very first blog I read (and I now religiously follow). I found it by Googling some kind of decorating question (which I now can't remember). I browsed thru it one night for over two hours! Which is a HUGE chunk of time for a mommy of 3. Well, a huge chunk of time for any mommy really. Anyway, I love your decorating style and your little ones are adorable. Not sure if you read all your posts, but I wanted to say: Thanks for the inspiration creatively and to become a better mommy.

yeeshan - Hello, I'm a new reader and I love reading your posts. Your photos are fabulous and everything is just so inspiring to me. Thank you for taking the time to blog and I look forward to your new entries everyday!

Jennifer Foster - Hey Ashley, we knew you guys from college and were excited to find your blog a little while ago. Thanks for taking the time to share with and encourage your readers. I love your creative ideas of time shared with your little ones and how you are teaching them to love others.

Stephanie - Hey Ash! Great post....I too would LOVE to see your schedule. I am still struggling incorporating a new one in the mix (and I only have 2!) so I would love a glimpse of what your day looks like. As always, thank you for being such a blessing. Being authentic and sharing who God made you! Hope you are having a great week!

the inadvertent farmer - Being a mom rocks! Adopting is an adventure of a lifetime...can't imagine my world without my darling daughter, our lives would be much less colorful, and noisy...and dramatic, lol! Kim

Kelly - I loved your answers. All of them. But especially the sleep one. I know it passes way too fast so I will give up sleep for middle of the night cuddles anytime!

Holly Todd - Submit my email address, I two years behind on photobooks now!

vicki - As a mom of three adult children, I can testify that the years fly by. You are wise to recognize the importance of living in the moment. Continue to cherish your precious family,and thanks for sharing your beautiful photographs and sweet blog.

Shaken Iced Tea Lemonade {my version}

Recently I tried the Shaken Ice Tea Lemonade at Starbucks….delicious. Like all things Starbucks it is pricey, so I came up with my own version. It turned out pretty good if I do say so myself. I am always one for doing things the simplest and fastest way possible…

Ingredients: Lipton Cold Brew ice tea, frozen lemonade (if you aren’t getting Starbucks tea and go with generic lemonade you can take what you save and sponsor a child in need….which let’s face it is so much better than name brand frozen lemonade!)

Step 1: Add the frozen lemonade and all but one can of water (if the lemonade calls for 4 & 1/3 cans of water just add 3 1/3 cans right now)

Step 2: Place tea bag in lemonade can

Step 3: Fill the can with cold water (which would be the remaining 1 can the lemonade calls for)

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Step 4: Brew the tea. You can just leave it there sitting, but if you swirl (or shake) it will brew stronger. This just depends on your taste.

Step 5: Add the concentrated brewed tea to the lemonade

Step 6: Pretend it is hot outside and you are sitting on a porch watching the sunset as your kids sweetly play in the yard and you are enjoying your iced tea lemonade

You can add more or less tea depending on your personal preference.

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What type of ribbon/binding did you use on your Little Dresses for Africa?

We used double biased tape for the arm holes…you could do it lots of ways. Here is the pattern Little Dresses for Africa provides.

I can’t subscribe to your blog…am I missing something?

Google Reader stopped working on my blog several months ago. I am trying to get that bug fixed…or at least figure out what it is to begin with. Several people have tried helping me with this. In the next couple of weeks I am making some changes to the backend of this blog, so hopefully I’ll get that issue fixed.

Are your kids in school?

My oldest is in kindergarten….and has the most wonderful teacher. We LOVE her!

bopha - You need to try the passion tea lemonade and figure out how to make it, it is dee-li-cious!

Erin - Awesome, can't wait to try this!

Crystal - This sounds delicious! I've been on a lemonade kick lately, and I love tea, so this sounds perfect!

chrissy - Thanks for posting about the 'little dresses for africa'. this week my a group of women are getting together at my church to make the dresses for an orphanage for Haiti. so very excited and we got the idea from your blog!!!! SO THANK YOU for all your work and compassion for others! depending on how well this week goes we may end up doing this quarterly and focus on a different country each time! Thanks for your creativity and sharing it w/ the world! love your blog, pictures and ideas!

Allie - As a Starbucks barista, can I let you in on a little secret??? We just began selling our full leaf tea (passion, zen, and black) that we use in our tea lemonades as a retail item in stores everywhere. It comes in a tin of 15 tea bags ($6.95) and I can assure you that you will not be disappointed -- they are all amazing!

chantelle - look great! I love the blueberry and ginseng by tetley right now......it's called clarity! Ha Perfect! Just what I need!

candace - Mmmmm, definitely worth trying. Makes me long for Spring and Summer......

Liz - I second the comment above about passion tea... It's SO good, especially in the summer. And like she said you can buy the tea bags at any starbucks store.

Kristin S - This is one of my favorite drinks at Starbucks but I order with the Passion Tea. Of course you can buy Tazo Passion Tea at the grocery store so I'm trying your recipe! Makes it decaf this way too.

Jasie - I do something similar to that. I mix one of the generic Crystal Light lemonade packs with one of the GCL Iced Tea packs. I get that because they're sugar free. I'm definitely going to make your version and do a taste test. We love teamonade at our house!

Meagan - Yum! My friend had a recipe for the passion tea lemonade on her facebook the other day using the Tazo passion tea too. Why have I never heard or these? Oh yeah, because I'm too distracted by the white mochas and caramel macchiatos... :)

Kate - Mmm... I can't wait to try it!

Shelley in SC - I think the best instruction is to sit on my porch, pretend it is hot and children are playing in the yard. May I add fireflies??

Justine - Soooo, I am a long time reader first time commenter :) but this post caught my eye! Because I worked at starbucks. I just wanted to tell you you are very close with your recipe, and if you want to add the sweetener to it like starbucks does you can buy a huge bottle of it for 6 bucks! We don't sell them in the lobby, you just gotta ask and we will pull one from the back.

some answers to SOME of your questions

So last week I opened it up for some questions…I had no idea you all would have so many! I’ll answer a few each day this week. Since posts without pictures are boring, I’ll throw in some pictures from the zoo last week (yeah, for warm weather!).

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Some of the questions are similar, so I’ll address a few at a time:

Can we see a tour of your house?

No, only because there is always a room in progress. Right now I am working on the boy’s room. When I finish it I’ll post a tour of that for you, but you’ll have to wait. I don’t know that my house would ever be at a point for a whole house tour…at least one room (usually 2) is always Under Construction.

Where did you get your globes?

All over the place! A few came from one antique store, the rest are just random places. Flea markets are a good bet. I saw one at GoodWill for $5.00 last week. Thrift stores usually have them too.

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What about that chalkboard in your living room…did you make it?

Yes, we built it. Here is a link to an Apartment Therapy feature on it…with some written instructions. I built it before I had a blog, so there aren’t any tutorials or pictures of the building process. Life before blogs!

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What about your fireplace?

Yes, it is real wood. We grabbed some branches and cut them into discs. I hot glued them to a backboard. We built the fireplace too. At one point the mantle almost got tossed through a window by my husband due to his love for handiwork projects. I haven’t asked him to build anything for a while…he’s probably had a long enough break that I could talk him into something again now. Here’s  the Before & After of the living room.

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What is the name of the green & blue bedding?

I don’t know. The teal/lime quilt is from Target a while back. The different colored pillows are all made from Amy Butler fabric( Belle Collection & Daisy Chain Collection). You can buy Amy Butler fabric all over online…just do a Google Search or a search on Etsy.com.

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Where do you get your daughter’s clothes?

Everyone was so excited for us when we found out we were having a girl that they showered us with lots of adorable clothes. I have only bought a few. She has a lot from Target, BabyGap, & Old Navy….headbands and hats from Etsy.com. I have a long list of patterns I’ve seen online that I want to make, but the reality is my mom will probably be the one making them!

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Where did you get that earflap baby hat from this post?

BabyGap…it was on sale…and an additional 40% off that. I love good sales! I love hats…as if you haven’t figured that out yet!

What are those stretchy headbands your daughter wears?

They are made out of nylons I think. I bought them from ElleBows. The Messy. Flower. is from Joy’s Hope.

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What about Meg from Whatever…have you met…are there pictures?

Oh you mean my ‘online best friend’ Meg…no we have not met.  Though when I talk about her you would think we go way back, when in fact we’ve only met online (isn’t that a movie line?). I hope to meet Meg this Spring/Summer….and yes I am sure we will both have pictures to post from that. She’s getting ready to go to Africa as support for a group called Word Made Flesh and will be opening her etsy store on Feb. 1st to help raise money for her trip. You should go buy something cute, but if there are pillows leave one for me.

Last year we (me & my boys, not me & Meg) were in the rainforest section of the Zoo and a bird aimed for my shoulder and deposited the by-product of a previous meal. My oldest never forgets a thing. Everytime we go to the zoo he says, “Can we go to the building that the bird pooped on you?” On one of my first dates with Chris we went to a zoo….a bird pooped on me then too.

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Happy Monday…hope you don’t get pooped on by a bird!

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Mandy B - My oldest remembers the rainforest building for that same incident...everytime we go in, she giggles and tells us the story of how a bird pooped on C's mommy. Thanks Ash for being the source of all sorts of entertainment!!

Jeannette Swan - I have been wanting to make a chalkboard since I first saw yours. I finally last week, got the hardboard and Lowe's cut it wrong, so it didn't fit my frame! Yes, I bought a frame many years ago that I'm going to use...I can't make my own. So, my father-in-law fixed the board for me. Now...on to painting it, maybe today - that would make me happy!

Kari S - I see that Hudson is prepared for the birds (with the hood over his head)!! That's funny! Our encounter at the zoo was with the monkey throwing up...I'd take bird poop on the shoulder anyday before I had to witness the monkey vomit! Eewwww!

Rachel Ridd - Thanks for answering my question about the fireplace! If you ever have time I would love to see a tutorial about how you created the mantel. Although I might just pick one up at the Habitat Restore because I have a feeling my husband may do the same thing :) Thanks for your blog - I love it!

chantelle - thanks for the peek into your life! Your blog is fab.

Christian T - I LOVE Baby Gap sales! I always have an additional %age off the sale price from a random coupon I find.

Carrie Sowell - I love you Ashley! Every post makes me smile! I miss seeing you.

Stephanie @ Bona Fide - Did you know that getting pooped on by a bird is supposed to mean good luck? I got poooped on by a bird in the middle of Times Sqaure once.

meg duerksen - yeah...what ABOUT that meg from whatever?! :) can't wait till we meet. it will be stellar! love your answers...it's fun to find out info about you...even it's your bedding is from target. ha! mine is from wal-mart.

Heather - Great post! I hear that when a bird poops on you it's good luck, or maybe that's just what a lady told me to make me feel better after a bird pooped on me.

emily anderson - okay ashley, this made me crack up...i always get pooped on by birds too!! aaaaaaand, in your post from today (or whenever) i thought it was neat that y'all are thinking about adopting...that's hopefully our next step too! we are alike, and it makes me laugh. :) emily